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The Nerve to Judge Me...  

betybop69 55F
1 posts
10/30/2011 4:49 am
The Nerve to Judge Me...

I just have to say to men who judges someone for having scars on their body is really really mean and hurtful. I have scars on my body from a horrible car accident ....I have been judged on my scars or weight.

Now mind you that I have on my profile heavy set cartoons, I pretty much make it clear im a heavy set woman and you must love being with one I go as far as asking the questions "are you really into heavy set women"? "How does it make you feel to be with a big woman?" based on the answer and how honest I think you are then I dont see why not continue to talk to you.

Then meet and if things happen to go further great but to stop notice my scars and start asking dumb questions and get turned off by it wow HELLO!!!! it still me the person YOU decided that you wanted to meet and talk to, compliment me every which way to get me to talk to you...I mean really I would never judge anyone its like your a burn victim , someone missing a limb, blind and I start to notice your imperfections what kind of shit is that???

Its still you and if you are honest and straight forward on what you want and expect from me, I would respect that and would never ever disrespect you in that way to judge you. I want to know
who you are , know your mind set, know your heart and if doesnt work out its always great to have you as a friend.

YOU have no right to judge me, Scars go away but the hurt lingers on. It takes a great man to overlook scars and weight . He goes futher not only does he want to know you, He really wants you for you the way u are with him , the pleasures each other can contribute to whatever kind of relationship you want it to be. can kiss those scars and look in your eyes and tell you he doesnt care... you didnt ask for these scars and im happy your still here to enjoy you.....wow brings tears to my eyes remembering those words from one great guy I met on this site very sweet and attentive to me...

Gentlemen, the words you use are cruel and soo hurtful but you will never break me down because I know im great woman and beautiful BBWoman inside and out ...Out there are great guys that love women like me and appreicate me . So really your the one missing out on this Good thing....

DON'T JUDGE PEOPLE IF YOU DON'T LIKE BEING JUDGED JUST OPEN
UP TO THE INSIDE BEAUTY AS WELL...WHAT THE MIND AND HEART HAS
TO SAY MATTERS....PEACE TO ALL!!!

Big10BBW4me71 52M
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11/1/2011 5:17 am

 Betbop69,
Do not let the jerks get you down, they are everywhere, but like wildfire said, there are some nice guys here, just got to keep taking chances and trust your judgement, and if you are disappointed by one, always remember you will do better cause you know who you are, and what you want, the jerk will always be a jerk and have problems, you seem like a nice woman, good luck to you, and always be safe.


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