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Calling You Out.....
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I know this in not RL, but to run someone off because you are not as popular as them, it's not morally right. So here's to trying to making this place a little nicer to come too You don't feed the animal what it wants. You starve it. You want this to be a place where people feel safe? So do I, but what this post does is feed the ego of the people we both want gone. There's no way to stop new ones from showing up, but when they do get here, we can make it easy to eliminate them. Two things. Do not respond to them. Do NOTHING to them but ignore, delete, and block. I don't disagree with your goals. I don't disagree with your sentiments or emotions. I think a different approach would work much better. And say 'hi' to ninner for me. Smart as a horse and hung like Einstein.
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They don't feel your rage at all. They want it. This is exactly the reaction they want. This is the attention they want. You don't feed the animal what it wants. You starve it. You want this to be a place where people feel safe? So do I, but what this post does is feed the ego of the people we both want gone. There's no way to stop new ones from showing up, but when they do get here, we can make it easy to eliminate them. Two things. Do not respond to them. Do NOTHING to them but ignore, delete, and block. I don't disagree with your goals. I don't disagree with your sentiments or emotions. I think a different approach would work much better. And say 'hi' to ninner for me. Often, all they want is to create trouble. To hurt feelings and make people angry. It's sometimes called 'leveling'. They bring you down to their level, in a sense, or think of it like a video game. By knocking off lots of characters (users on the site), they add points and raise their level. That's the way they see it. They want your rage. The more you give it, the more they love it. Smart as a horse and hung like Einstein.
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Not to play devil's advocate, and I didn't know Ninner except as a picture now and then, but what if she turned it off to take a break or because it is the holiday season and lots of folks are too busy to blog right now? I don't know. If she told you that there was some asshole mimicking her or being nasty to her, it looks from the responses here that if they (the asshole(s) ) wanted a flame war, she had more than enough champions on her side. Asshat Fuckedup Finder is most approp.
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She's just let it go, but I know it has affected her even if she won't admit it. BBB? is that "Bouncy Bubbly Babes"?  you are too cute!!!!! BBB= Better Business Bureau. If she isn't getting satisfaction from Affairlook, perhaps BBB could intervene....although Affairlook is really messed up if this is a regular happening, and they allow it to continue....... what the world needs now..........    
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They don't feel your rage at all. They want it. This is exactly the reaction they want. This is the attention they want. You don't feed the animal what it wants. You starve it. You want this to be a place where people feel safe? So do I, but what this post does is feed the ego of the people we both want gone. There's no way to stop new ones from showing up, but when they do get here, we can make it easy to eliminate them. Two things. Do not respond to them. Do NOTHING to them but ignore, delete, and block. I don't disagree with your goals. I don't disagree with your sentiments or emotions. I think a different approach would work much better. And say 'hi' to ninner for me.
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Let me add a bit. Often, all they want is to create trouble. To hurt feelings and make people angry. It's sometimes called 'leveling'. They bring you down to their level, in a sense, or think of it like a video game. By knocking off lots of characters (users on the site), they add points and raise their level. That's the way they see it. They want your rage. The more you give it, the more they love it.
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Not to play devil's advocate, and I didn't know Ninner except as a picture now and then, but what if she turned it off to take a break or because it is the holiday season and lots of folks are too busy to blog right now? I don't know. If she told you that there was some asshole mimicking her or being nasty to her, it looks from the responses here that if they (the asshole(s) ) wanted a flame war, she had more than enough champions on her side. Asshat Fuckedup Finder is most approp.
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you are too cute!!!!! BBB= Better Business Bureau. If she isn't getting satisfaction from Affairlook, perhaps BBB could intervene....although Affairlook is really messed up if this is a regular happening, and they allow it to continue.......
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11/14/2009 10:58 am |
That's terrible. You'd think we'd have adults on Affairlook and not a bunch of 13 year old bullies.. or immature CUNTS.. and I do love that word.. who are too jealous to leave well enough alone.
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I'm so on your side with this... I linked from another blog and when I finished reading your post, I was pissed... I hate people that pick on others for no good reason. I'm from St. Louis and we had a beautiful young girl kill herself due to crap like this... It has got to stop before more people get hurt. If you have any contact with this person, tell her to come back and we know what to do to the people that are messing with her...Get me an email address and I'll turn their computer into a boat anchor.
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I was wondering why she slipped off my friends list. Why do people have to do that shit to others? Why can't the jealous fuckwits just move on if they have a problem with someone. Please tell Ninner I miss her and her happy blog and I hope she does come back. Linda xxx
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I don't know her either...but people seriously need to get a life and grow up rather than sit behind a computer and try to act like assholes for no reason. I don't get the whole cyber bullying stuff, or like I like to call them internet gangstas. They talk a bunch of bs and then when it comes down to it they are probably some nerdy low life that can't get any usually lol.
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I miss her terribly as well. The fact that someone tried to hurt her is deplorable. I am glad to hear she has such a determined army of followers and though I count myself among them I'm not sure how much good it'll do. Calling these people out will not make them raise their hands and claim ownership of their actions. I do hope however that they feel the lynching mob at their backs and re-think their choices or even better, run for the hills. Hear my brain work when you check out the Cricket's Chirp
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That's terrible. You'd think we'd have adults on Affairlook and not a bunch of 13 year old bullies.. or immature CUNTS.. and I do love that word.. who are too jealous to leave well enough alone.
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Tabitha
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