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Being Alpha as a mofo, while not being an ass...
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Being Alpha as a mofo, while not being an ass... I guess this is a little advice piece, feel free to comment or chip in with your experiences... I use Affairlook in bursts...I find something i want on here, then take a break when either i don't want Gold anymore or when i'm good. I still try to keep in touch with people though! I'm not a man or anything, nor am I a notch in the bedpost kinda guy, I like finding good quality folks to meet as friends or as...fwb. In any case...I've been making the Ohio chat room my home lately, and its a far better experience than cold calling people in IM (with all of its bugginess) or randomly shooting people messages. Plus you actually get to have conversation with people, regardless of whether or not they're interested in you. Pretty good stuff in my opinion. However people are more vocal there too, and they'll let you know if they're interested in you right away which is definitely nice. So i guess i'm saying I've found people easier and quicker on the chats than I would have through normal means. Thats not the point of the post though... It brings me to what the real issue is... I cant count how many times in the chat that conversation amongst the room is going great, people are having a good time, then some guy(s) come out of nowhere and<b> spam </font></b>on the women with PM's and overall messages about their dick or whoring themselves basically. I understand that this is an adult personals site, but its not too different from real life. If you want to get anywhere with people...try talking to them like people. THEN if they show interest, go from there. Coming at people like "AY YO GURL I GOT DAT DOPE DICK WANT SUM FUK?" usually gets you ignored. Like real life, you gotta be a little bit classy at least. If a woman wants to rub their nether parts on you, they gotta at least feel like you are a normal person who actually cares about what they think. The cruel irony of things is that the harder you try, the less you'll succeed when it comes to relationships (finding/starting one that is) If its natural, then things might work out better for ya. Classy, chill folks are the ones that see the most action and meet the most people. In general people are attracted to others they would like most to be around...so if you come off as a pompous ass, unless they are too, they won't wanna be around you! Someone today said that "women don't choose men based on what their dick looks like." Which is fact. So all you guys who think that you have the thunder penis of the world that causes women to swoon at its gaze...come back down to reality cause that's not how things work. In the end, its only going to be inside of them where they can't see it, so what else are they going to look at? Women gotta be attracted to you guys, personality and looks play a part after all. If you can't get past that then you're stuck. Rant rant rant....any thoughts and opinions? |
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Thanks all! love to hear you all enjoyed my post! I'll keep posting more and more!
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and no i don't mind, link away!
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