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What is the deal?
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What is the deal? So, I have discovered yet another magical power I have. I think everyone of us knows that women have absolutely no idea what they want. Now, that isn't to say that it's exclusive to the femanine perspective or that men are supremely awesome or anything as masaganistic as all that. But, women.... admit it. You always act like you know what you want, but rarely is it in fact what you want. You just like to run us around getting what it is you think you want exactly when you want it. I have discovered this over a ever growing number of failed relationships. The epiphany I've only just had though is that I am apparently very, VERY good at helping women realize exactly what they don't want. Which is to say... anything to do with me. I'm really not nearly as depressed about this thought as I normally would be though for some reason. You might ask yourself, "what's up Nick? What happened?" Well, I'll tell you. I have just recently had yet another failed attempt at being a little less lonely. I am a magnet for women who "think they want" a relationship of any consequence, or so I hope that's all it is. And, as I stated before, I am very good at helping them realize that they really don't want one.... or just me... Anyways, I met a girl who I was talking to on a fairly regular basis and seeing her spiratically because she was busy. She got really busy for about a week and all she was up for was the occasisonal text message every couple days. Then, I get a call where it is repetatively reiterated to me that there is just no time in her life for me. She was nice about it, but I can't help wondering..... Why now exactly? Yes, she's busier, but how is that any different than the last month or so before now? Now, I'm pretty sure I'm not smothering. I've learned that women need space and then lack of space; it's all part of their not knowing what they want thing. But, I now hove the ability to help women realize that a relationship is definitely not what they want. What they actually wanted all along is "a friend with benefits", or "just a friend", or a "career without a relationship because there's no time", etc... Now where is there a happy medium I wonder. Where do the non-clingy women who want a relationship hang out? Seriously? I am not looking for 8-10 hours a day of attention here. I'd just like to know why it's so hard to find a smart/educated woman who knows what's important to her, isn't overly mean or judgemental, and perhaps a bit health conscience. Am I late to the party? Am I too late a bloomer? Did I miss out on all the good women in my early 20's while I was busy being bad at talking to women? O well..... Back to long days of work to forget yet another really cute girl I had a crush on, whom I thought liked me, only to figure out she woke up one morning and decided I/and a relationship are not what she wanted at all..... (and run on sentences about my plight)   Hope you can't help but find happiness, and pain can't find you even with help! Check out my blog and give me a look loves hokietiger  |
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I have read and lived that story before. Things happen when they do and it just might be a person that you least expect it with! Happy studying and hunting  open your heart and mind 
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2/6/2009 7:05 pm |
You cannot make someone love you. All you can do is be someone who can be loved.
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