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Blogs > HokieTiger > The boy with kaleidoscope eyes

THE game  

HokieTiger 43M
282 posts
8/28/2007 6:10 pm
THE game

yesterday I found out that when I had been sending messages I had had my email in my signiture at the end and that it was keeping people from reading my messages. So I resent a few messages to people I hadn't heard back from, due to the mistake.

It was nice cause I hadn't heard back from anyone and I was excited in particular about one profile which was one of the main reasons I decided to join the site when I was checking it out initially.

It was extra cool because when I checked my account after a trip to the gym to run I found that she had messaged me back. I was psyched because she was very cool and we messagaed a couple times. All of this is great because I met someone in my area who I think I have a lot in common with etc...

There was a little witty banter and some bit o' connection and then I didn't hear back for a day or so and now I'm wondering what's up or should I send a message or give it more time.

It's odd because I am good at the talking and I think I am generally good people, but all the "rules" and waiting just screw with my head. I haven't really ever been a social dating machine and maybe I'm just not comfortable or confidant enough. Right now I think it's turning me into bonzo the crazy worrysome monkey. I'd like to message, but I always worry. "Did I say something that tuned her off?" "Did the messaging system fuck up when my computer hiccuped?" "Or, is she just busy?" Someone please just put me out of my misery.

Anyone have constructive advice beyond "stop freaking out"? How do other people deal with this. Do you just have to not care about the outcome? Is that the way people approach dating? I'm glad I care enough to worry because I don't take good people for granted, but not so happy with the actual worrying.
Or...I might just be full of shit

Hope you can't help but find happiness, and pain can't find you even with help!

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bad_assed_witch 109F
33758 posts
9/4/2007 12:34 am

 it's all good !
~ The New & Improved Cocksucker ~


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