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Dear Nessa (as in "Dear Abby")  

Miztress_Nessa 47F  
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8/2/2007 1:20 pm

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7/23/2012 9:12 pm
Dear Nessa (as in "Dear Abby")


There's A First Time For Everything - We all tend to relish our virgin encounters, particularly when it comes to sex. The maiden voyage is rarely the creme de la creme, but it is often the most memorable. With that in mind, I would like to take a moment to welcome you to Affairlook FTLS's newest thread, Ask Nessa. Every week I will be writing an article based on your questions as we attempt to unlock the tantalizing mysteries of sex and the human condition.

I have spent the past several years of my life considering the concept of writing on a variety of topics. I've dabbled here and there... but then I thought, why not here..? among friends?? The more I thought about the idea, the more I was fascinated by the concept of addressing all aspects of the subject that literally makes the world go around: Sex.

I intend for this to be something like Dear Abby... But with more... spark! My hope for each article is to journey into uncharted waters or at least put a fresh spin on an old standby. The topics will be selected by your questions, so please don't be afraid to throw me a curve ball in order to make the forum as intriguing as possible. Furthermore, I should also say that I don't consider my self an "expert" but I will definitely try to answer all of your questions and make the articles worth reading... I also want to ask everyone's cooperation and point of view, so don't be afraid to put your input and answer questions!

I hope you are all as excited as I am as we embark on a sensual journey into the nether regions of our fantasies.

~*~ M!ztress Nessa ~*~

(Originally Posted Jul 26, 2007 1:22 pm)
Miztress_Nessa 47F  
226 posts
8/3/2007 9:33 pm

 Thanks... Now if I could just get questions going... would be nice!

~*~ Miztress Nessa ~*~
FTLS


Miztress_Nessa 47F  
226 posts
8/3/2007 9:33 pm
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Thank you sweetie!! I'll make it a point to check out your blog too!

~*~ Miztress Nessa ~*~
FTLS


Miztress_Nessa 47F  
226 posts
8/28/2007 8:40 pm
    Quoting  :
Thanks sweetie, I guess it would help if I actually got people to ask questions! lol

~*~ Miztress Nessa ~*~
FTLS


rm_beardedone60 65M
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9/27/2007 11:05 pm

 I could sure use a dear Abby type. Celebate for two years waiting for my soon to be ex wife to decide what to do. How do I start over after 25 years of only her. I will be spending time in rockford at RMH doing Paramedic trainning can you point the way.


Miztress_Nessa replies on 9/30/2007 11:13 am:
Sweetie, if it's a "dear Abby" you want, that's what you'll get.

Your first mistake is waiting for someone else to decide how YOU will live your life. Now, don't get me wrong, I'll be the first one to say that you shouldn't cheat on the person you're with, you should always be truthful and honest. But, you should also be open, if something is not working, your first step should've been to talk to her, try to work it out, FIX it! Now, going by the "ex" part behind the "wife" on your question, I can assume that the time to fix thing has passed, and at this point it is perhaps too late. But don't think of it as starting over... Think of it as moving on. Starting over is going back to the beginning... is turning back time and going back to when you first started, without the experience, the wisdom that has been bestowed upon you with time. Moving on, is easier to do, is simply changing your path in life, finding your self and continuing on that path, without waiting for someone to follow you, or waiting to see which path they will take so you can follow.

My best advice... take your time... your time to know where you're going and who you are. It is easy for married people to lose sight of who they are when they're wrapped up in someone else, or when they've been with someone else for so long, they don't really know who they are without this person. Don't rush into anything. And definitely do not go looking for love or a relationship right away, keep in mind that love will find you when it's ready for you. Go out, have fun, meet people, and take it one day at a time.

Also, keep in mind that you will have "episodes" when you will feel so lonely that you'll want to call your ex... don't. Call a friend, go for a walk, a run, something to keep you from feeling depressed. Always have a back up plan for when those episodes hit.

I wish you the best.

~ Nessa ~

_SoxFan_ 43M

9/29/2007 3:39 pm

 Tu siempre haciendo todo lo que te gusta

Izzy


Miztress_Nessa replies on 9/30/2007 11:15 am:
Claro!! Obviamente, tu haces todo lo que tu quieres hacer, porque los demas no pueden?

~ Nessa ~

beuch501 45M
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2/12/2009 11:38 am

 salut ma cokete


rm_assam331000 46M
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3/3/2009 2:47 pm

 your face like beautiful baby i loved you i like smile woman


rm_assam331000 46M
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3/3/2009 2:53 pm

 i am old man . How i refresh my sexy finger?


rm_matraque1974 49M
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1/10/2013 1:30 am

 nice girl im very happy im invite my cam to look at me


rm_matraque1974 49M
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1/10/2013 1:32 am

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