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In Loving Memory  

Miztress_Nessa 47F  
318 posts
5/4/2008 7:14 pm

Last Read:
7/23/2012 9:38 pm

In Loving Memory

In Loving Memory
Seth I. Perez
08.12.99 - 02.26.08
Always loved, Never forgotten

There are no words left to say
Or even stories to tell
What one day came to me
Today is gone.

I have to believe that your soul never left
It just needed to be free
And so destiny decided
once again.

Such a short time ago I felt
That you were everything to me
And today I can't even say your name
knowing that you're gone and I'm left here

Me, Without you my love

I've almost gone out looking for you
and handed you my broken heart

Me, Without you my love

I've been on the verge of joining you
so I can leave this pain behind

Me, Without you my love

It hasn't been easy to accept
That you will never come back
Oh how it hurts to remember
that you're not here anymore

Such a short time ago I felt
That you were everything to me
And today I can't even say your name
knowing that you're gone and I'm left here

Me, Without you my love

I've almost gone out looking for you
and handed you my broken heart

Me, Without you my love

I've been on the verge of joining you
so I can leave this pain behind

Me, here without you my love... I'm dying.

~ Nessa ~




pauljames44 79M  
299 posts
5/5/2008 6:09 am

Dear Nessa,

I know that no words can ease the pain you feel over the loss of your son. Since I had the pleasure of meeting and spending time with him, I have a glimpse of what a special little guy he was.

What I can offer is my prayers for you and Seth, and a reminder that as much as it hurts, it was what God had is store for the both of you. And NOT as a punishment, but as a gift. The gift was that you got to spend 8 years with him - in short, HIS whole life. And, while his body is no longer around, his memory will live forever, with you, and all of us who had the privilege of knowing him

Lastly, you STILL have 2 remarkable daughters, who love and need you to be there for THEM, for they experience loss too, only they don't have the wisdom of YOUR years to cope with it. Allow yourself to be comforted by and to comfort them through this difficult time. And then, go on with your live(s).

What we call "death," is simply one of the many transitions of life, a molecular shift in the stuff of which life consists. And while we don't like to face it, we ALL have a date with death - we just don't know the exact date, and that date ONLY comes when our job on earth is complete. So, please, please, celebrate every minute of LIFE, as though it might be our last, because one day, you'll be right.

Love,

Paul


SleepyAngel23 41F

5/5/2008 8:11 am

I just found your blog. I'm so, so sorry for your loss. But don't be too sad because right now he's in Heaven laughing and sitting on Jesus' lap telling Him all about what a great mom you are. So cheer up, okay? Here's a hug for you.

Sleepy Angel

I my friends!!


buddydude1962 62M
192 posts
5/5/2008 2:49 pm

Nessa:

You know I understand.
I'll contact you by email.
M

The shadows cast into the day and are an extension of the soul


BehindMyBlues 58F
15466 posts
5/7/2008 10:04 am

Hugs and lots of strength Nessa. Hang in there.

BehindMyBlues


canyaz 56F
17128 posts
5/7/2008 12:18 pm

Oh Sweets, Big Hug. I am sorry you are going through the worst loss you will ever endure. I hope you have a good support network. There are some great Grief Groups out there. I hope you can eventually get to one.

There is a difference between a good BJ and a bad BJ.
canyaz


nighthawk353 58M

5/7/2008 6:33 pm

I am sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers to you and your family.


justbcuz61 62F

5/7/2008 6:42 pm

My prayers are with you and yours. I'm so very sorry for your loss. Hugs all around.


ce_64667 60F

5/8/2008 8:27 am

I am so sorry for your loss.

It appears you have some wonderful friends here who love you very much...lean on them...let them help you.

Your family is in my prayers.

tight hugs,
ce



"All you'll get from strangers is surface pleasantry or indifference. Only someone who loves you will criticize you." - Judith Crist, crack film critic


princessmischief 62F
1517 posts
5/8/2008 2:21 pm

My heartfelt condolences are sent to you

Princess Mischief


dash047 63M
5633 posts
5/8/2008 2:36 pm

...sooo sorry for your loss.

BEND OVER...I'll DRIVE


DRFEELSOOOGOOD 66M

5/8/2008 11:12 pm

DEAR SWEET NESSA,

[image] I'M PRAYING AND THINKING ABOUT YOU !

I HAVE JUST SAW YOUR BLOG TODAY ! ... I AM DEEPLY FEELING FOR YOU AT THIS TIME SWEETS!



PLEASE STAY STRONG ! *** I PRAY FOR YOU AND YOUR FAMILY AND WILL DAILY ! ... PLEASE LET ME KNOW HOW YOUR HEALING PROGRESS' AS TIME PASSES THRU YOUR HARD LOSS ALONG WITH THE DEALING OF WHY ??? .... BABY, ANYTHING I CAN DO TO HELP YOU, JUST ASK !! A GREAT IMPORTANCE FOR YOU AT THESE SOOO TERRIBLY ROUGH TIMES IS A GOOD CONSTANT CASE OF COMMUNICATION, TALKING AND SOME LAUGHTER HELPS A BUNCH !

I PRAY YOUR LOVING FRIENDS N' FAMILY ARE AVAILABLE FOR YOUR NEEDED COMFORT!

NESS, MAIL ME IF YOU WOULD LIKE SOMEONE TO TALK TO HUN, PLEASE !

I CAN'T EVEN IMAGINE WHAT YOUR GOING THRU NOW. WE WONDER WHY THESE
EVENTS HAPPEN TO PEOPLE AND EVERY ONE HAS THEIR OWN THEORIES.

WELL SOOO SORRY FOR RAMBLIN HERE BUT I AM SOO FEELING FOR YOU SWEETS !

PLEASE , IF YA WANNA CHAT EVEN FOR 5 MINS I WELCOME IT !

ALL MY LOVE TO YOU NESS ! {=}

YIM ID raf2217

A TENDER GOODBYE BABE AND IT MUST BE A WONDERFUL COMFORTING FEELING FOR THE MANY POSTS FROM THE MEMBERS WITH THEIR KIND WORDS AND LOVE.

PRAYING AND HOPING FOR YOUR COMFORT TO INCREASE DAILY LOVE !!

DR. FEEL XX O mmmmmm ! {=}


rm_lovers1810 57M/47F
533 posts
5/9/2008 7:14 am

all my love hugs and thoughts go out to u at this really sad time. try to find the strength to keep ur chin up and keep moving forward, try to rememeber all the good times, i can only imagine what u r going through.
really am so sorry, sending lots of heartfelt love and best wishes for the future.
hugs Ally xoxoxox


rm_ann1961000 63F
1 post
5/12/2008 11:40 am

This is my first time contacting nessa. But i'd like to tell her she can do all things thru christ that strenghtens her. Sometimes things are done for a reason. Maybe god had more use for Seth in heaven? Keep you eyes to the hill from which cometh your help all your help comes from god who is the creator of all life. Be encouraged look up at the sky Seth is looking down waving at you telling you he's with god and he's fine now.


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