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What I want from AFF  

rm_jxnlovli 49F
13 posts
11/3/2007 10:47 am
What I want from AFF


Men keep asking me what I'm looking for on here. I suppose because of my posts, they are confused as to whether I am looking for love or sex. When I tell them "friends with benefits" they still don't get it. I am hoping this will clarify.

No, I'm not looking to fall in love or have a serious, lifelong relationship! I suppose if love/serious relationship fell in my lap, so be it. But for now, I just want a decent person(s) who can have an honest conversation and stimulate my brain and my body. This just makes the sex even better for me. I would like someone that I can do things with, in and out of the bedroom. Isn't that the definition of "friends with benefits"? Ideally, I would like someone that I can hang out with, grab some lunch, supper, drinks, a movie, whatever, with or without sex. Sometimes it may just be a bootycall, sometimes it may just be supper (we all gotta eat sometime!). There are times when a girl's playland is closed for renovations - admittedly, men have the better plumbing! - does this mean you just forget about her? Or expect her to pleasure you orally and nothing for her? Sometimes life makes it that one or both of you don't have time, energy, or other circumstances, for the bootycall part, but that little time together for lunch or a drink with a little flirting, even if subtle, is nice, adds spice to the sex the next time, don't you think? I know, men don't usually think that way, they want sex sex sex. I'm usually in the mood myself, or can be put there without too much coercion. (or 2 glasses of wine or shots of Patron!) Even so, there are times that circumstances are not conducive to playing, but it would be nice to see that person that makes your toes curl, yes? Makes you anticipate that next time you can be naked together even more? That is why I find it so important to have a mental connection with someone as well as a physical connection.

I'm sure there are lots of people out there, men and women, who don't care who they do, as long as they have a big dick or tight pussy. That's great for them. It just isn't generally enough for me. I want it all! Big dick, big muscles, and a great personality!

I will have to come back to post a selection, nothing is springing to mind at the moment. Suggestions?

I came back to post this one. Still not really what I want, but this is running through my mind today. Also ties in with my other post about how to treat a girl right...

Song: Shawty Is Da Shid
Artist: The Dream


Shawty Rock To The Beat For Ya Boy
Shawty
Do It
Rock To The Beat For Ya Boy
Radio Killa,Killa,Killa

[Verse 1:]
Shawty Fly, Shawty Tight
Shoulda Stayed There All Night
With You (You) With You
I Missed Ya, Picked Ya
Now Its Time I
Get Back With You(You)Girl With You
Oh Yeah
We Used To Kick Up At The Park
Now She's All Growwn Up
Rockin Them Stilettos
Jumpin Out That Mercedes Truck

[Bridge:]
It Was Kiesha
It Was Sonya
It Was Tonya
It Was Monique
It Was Nece
It Was Keke
Now That I See You At 23
All I Can Say Is

[Chorus:]
Oooooooo,Ooooo
Man I Don't Need No Hook For This Shid
Cuz Shawty Right There Is The Shid, The Shid
Shawty Is The Shid
Shawty You The Shid
The Shid
Shawty You The Shid
The Shid
Shawty You The Shid
The Shid, Oh Yeah

[Verse 2:]
Need Your Keys
So Waltz On Me
Burberry Fragance On My Shirt From When She
(Oh) Me
Hard As A Rock From When She Touched Me
Thinkin Now That She Would've Loved Me
What It Is, What It Ain't, Tell Me What To Do
I Know Im Late But Destiny Brought Me Back To You
I Know I Turned You Into A Butterfly
So I Say Hello, Tell Yo Nigga Goodbye

[Bridge:]
It Was Kiesha
It Was Sonya
It Was Tonya
It Was Monique
It Was Nece
It Was Keke
Now That I See You At 23
All I Can Say Is

[Chorus:]
Oooooooo,Ooooo
Man I Don't Need No Hook For This Shid
Cuz Shawty Right There Is The Shid, The Shid
Shawty Is The Shid
Shawty You The Shid
The Shid
Shawty You The Shid
The Shid
Shawty You The Shid
The Shid, Oh Yeah

[Verse 3:]
If She Fine, Shawty Is A Dime
You Should Tip Her, You Should Tip Her
If She Go, And You Love Her
You Should Tip Her, You Should Tip Her
If She Fix You Eggs And Grits In The Morning
You Should Tip Her, You Should Tip Her
Pancakes With The Bacon On The Side
(You Should Tip Me, You Should Tip Me)

Shawty Rock To The Beat For Ya Boy
Yeah,Yeah,Yeah
Rock To The Beat For Ya Boy
Now To See You At 23 All I Can Say Is

[Chorus:]
Oooooooo,Ooooo
Man I Don't Need No Hook For This Shid
Cuz Shawty Right There Is The Shid, The Shid
Shawty You The Shid
Shawty You The Shid
The Shid
Shawty You The Shid
The Shid
Shawty You The Shid
The Shid, Oh Yeah

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