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BUSTED  

keithcancook 67M
7834 posts
10/25/2015 3:12 pm
BUSTED


There are so many different ways to begin a blog. Every once in a while I encounter a blog that opens with a threat. Here's one I found last night. Check this out and tell me how you would respond if you were the target of such a threat?

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Tmptrzz 61F  
107039 posts
10/25/2015 3:14 pm

Wow, someone got busted..good for the wife!!!

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


keithcancook 67M
18358 posts
10/25/2015 3:30 pm

    Quoting Tmptrzz:
    Wow, someone got busted..good for the wife!!!
This is the second one I've seen in the last few months.


marysia4u 68F
15417 posts
10/25/2015 3:41 pm

Wow, that's dobbing him in. Good for her.

I wouldn't give him a second chance, she's better off without him.


keithcancook 67M
18358 posts
10/25/2015 4:13 pm

    Quoting yellowflower56:
    OH WoW...the poor woman, I feel bad for her,but she spewed hard....good for her! Hes a douche, and her life would be so much better without him, but she needs to find out by herself. I hope she figures it out more sooner then later. My Mom was 8months prego with my brother,and my other brother was 3,and I was 5...yeah, he was a douche too, and things only got worse....
Yeah. It was pretty much the best vent I've seen this year. I wonder what yer ma would have said in her blog?


NaughtyInSO 113F
9755 posts
10/25/2015 4:15 pm

I wouldn't know how to respond because I never cheated, never betrayed anyone's trust.

His wife deserves better. I'd never give him another chance. Ever.

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keithcancook 67M
18358 posts
10/25/2015 4:22 pm

    Quoting marysia4u:
    Wow, that's dobbing him in. Good for her.

    I wouldn't give him a second chance, she's better off without him.


Agreed.


keithcancook 67M
18358 posts
10/25/2015 4:37 pm

    Quoting NaughtyInSO:
    I wouldn't know how to respond because I never cheated, never betrayed anyone's trust.

    His wife deserves better. I'd never give him another chance. Ever.
Me neither. I have been betrayed, however. The whole things a mess, and I am so thankful that it's not my mess.

blog on!


Vavavoom_23452 49F
896 posts
10/25/2015 4:51 pm

Wow...just wow...so so so very sad, pregnant and all
Someone was just telling me about leaving their phone open and the girlfriend reading his texts with another, where he was talking about the gf... sometimes too much info, too directly like that can truly break your heart. Been cheated on, found out, in a very clear and unexpected way too. I've decided never to snoop again. Yes it's better to know but it hurts too much when it's so direct.


kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
10/25/2015 5:20 pm

Well, we got one side of the story anyway. I'm inclined to believe her, for what it's worth. But I have read a lot of things on the interweb, and I think I can safely say that things are not always as they appear.
How would I react if I were the target? I'd not be pleased I reckon but her description doesn't fit me, and would never have fit me, so it's unanswerable in any event. I don't think I'm quite ready to join a lynch mob just yet.

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keithcancook 67M
18358 posts
10/25/2015 6:00 pm

    Quoting Vavavoom_23452:
    Wow...just wow...so so so very sad, pregnant and all
    Someone was just telling me about leaving their phone open and the girlfriend reading his texts with another, where he was talking about the gf... sometimes too much info, too directly like that can truly break your heart. Been cheated on, found out, in a very clear and unexpected way too. I've decided never to snoop again. Yes it's better to know but it hurts too much when it's so direct.
The pain can be most exquisite if you are in love with offender.


keithcancook 67M
18358 posts
10/25/2015 6:28 pm

    Quoting kzoopair:
    Well, we got one side of the story anyway. I'm inclined to believe her, for what it's worth. But I have read a lot of things on the interweb, and I think I can safely say that things are not always as they appear.
    How would I react if I were the target? I'd not be pleased I reckon but her description doesn't fit me, and would never have fit me, so it's unanswerable in any event. I don't think I'm quite ready to join a lynch mob just yet.
You are quite correct to point these things out. Yes, it is but one side. It could even be total bullshit from some blogger doing a pisstake on us. I am just the messenger here. It is great three-minute theater whatever it is, and the issue is pertinent to this site.

The target bit was a device I used to make readers more curious, and thus more likely to follow the link.


kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
10/25/2015 6:39 pm

    Quoting keithcancook:
    You are quite correct to point these things out. Yes, it is but one side. It could even be total bullshit from some blogger doing a pisstake on us. I am just the messenger here. It is great three-minute theater whatever it is, and the issue is pertinent to this site.

    The target bit was a device I used to make readers more curious, and thus more likely to follow the link.
You know, Keith, the real bitch of it is that, like I said about my own reaction, it seems so plausible to us because we've seen it happen so many times. We all know of someone like him, and there are a lot of cheaters right here. But it ain't just the web- in the world things are not always as they appear either. Life can be hard.

(It was a hell of a good rant, anyway!)

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Furbal1972 51M
18571 posts
10/25/2015 7:23 pm


Wait.
That's dirty laundry.
It's not supposed to be so funny!

There is much greed and depravity in the world. We are becoming cynical.
But it's amusing when it happens to someone else.

Taking the story at face value, she's screwed.
She's going to give him "1 last chance". (How many more times will she say that?)
And it sounds like they are both going to be miserable. .. A miracle could happen. He could CHANGE! ... But she it sounds like she is going to hold this over him for a while. (And since this doesn't sound like new behavior, I doubt he will change.)

There is likely more to this sad story.
I think they are both doomed.

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keithcancook 67M
18358 posts
10/25/2015 7:59 pm

    Quoting Furbal1972:

    Wait.
    That's dirty laundry.
    It's not supposed to be so funny!

    There is much greed and depravity in the world. We are becoming cynical.
    But it's amusing when it happens to someone else.

    Taking the story at face value, she's screwed.
    She's going to give him "1 last chance". (How many more times will she say that?)
    And it sounds like they are both going to be miserable. .. A miracle could happen. He could CHANGE! ... But she it sounds like she is going to hold this over him for a while. (And since this doesn't sound like new behavior, I doubt he will change.)

    There is likely more to this sad story.
    I think they are both doomed.
You are right. It aint pretty. Never let it happen to you, Yikes!


keithcancook 67M
18358 posts
10/25/2015 7:59 pm

    Quoting apollorising2021:
    Lost time my girl cheated on me I didn't think it was so funny!
I know, right?


keithcancook 67M
18358 posts
10/25/2015 9:15 pm

    Quoting  :

Struggling with emotions proves we're human, neh?


keithcancook 67M
18358 posts
10/25/2015 9:55 pm

    Quoting  :

In these types of stories I think there are at least three sides. Perhaps someone else will hijack his account and we will hear another view...


JudeL5 53M
1629 posts
10/25/2015 10:23 pm

Ummm, yah that is awkward... The back story is everything though.... At 1st read this is a Gerry Springer episode... and likely is...

Forget the 2nd chance. If a guy has gone as far as put up a profile AND meet up (we all assumed that but not necessarily)... he's not in it...


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
10/26/2015 1:55 am

By chance, I came across that blog. It was a riveting read.
I hoped it was a spoof with lots more to come!


GB_Cple 73M/62F  
3118 posts
10/26/2015 10:48 am

well she didn't 'Out' him by giving his nick, he can be thankful for that at least.


keithcancook 67M
18358 posts
10/26/2015 12:40 pm

    Quoting JudeL5:
    Ummm, yah that is awkward... The back story is everything though.... At 1st read this is a Gerry Springer episode... and likely is...

    Forget the 2nd chance. If a guy has gone as far as put up a profile AND meet up (we all assumed that but not necessarily)... he's not in it...
Well, the guy could have been drunk, just coming off a fight with his wife, set up the profile on an angry whim, passed out, then forgot about the whole thing. Now his wife blisters him for his small dick and everything else. Who the heck knows?


keithcancook 67M
18358 posts
10/26/2015 12:47 pm

    Quoting  :

Anything is possible with profiles in this place. I will never be more interested in it than what I read in the actual post. I will not try to determine it's veracity. Too time consuming, and often indeterminate. I took that post at face value, and put it up for discussion.


keithcancook 67M
18358 posts
10/26/2015 12:50 pm

    Quoting spunkycumfun:
    By chance, I came across that blog. It was a riveting read.
    I hoped it was a spoof with lots more to come!
Yeah, I saw that you had arrived there just before I did. It's a great way to introduce a piss-take, I agree.


keithcancook 67M
18358 posts
10/26/2015 1:18 pm

    Quoting  :

Seriously? An attention whore? You have followed my blog, and read my comments all these years, and this is what you believe of me?

Regarding the gender issue, I have not seen a comment here that states that it is a "sisterhood right or wrong" view. Until yours. I agree that a mob moves without considering all angles of an argument. kzoo, and others have offered tempering viewpoints. This mob seems rather tame, actually.

I totally disagree about whether this is my business. It was a public blog posted in a public forum and is being discussed here publicly as per usual in blogging circles. I have no moral problem with what I have done.

I find this stuff fascinating in a train-wreck sort of way, and I suppose that is not my finest quality, but oh well. If ya wanna be disappointed in me, I would rather it was for that.


keithcancook 67M
18358 posts
10/26/2015 1:19 pm

    Quoting  :

See my previous response, please.


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