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Rudeness,Jealousy,and Backstabbers!!!
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Rudeness,Jealousy,and Backstabbers!!! RUDENESS:Rudeness is the (apparent) disrespect and failure to behave within the context of a society or a group of people's social laws or etiquette. These laws have already unspokenly been established as the essential boundaries of normally accepted behavior. To be unable to align one's behavior with these laws known to the general population of what is socially acceptable would be considered rude. Ya know...you think your friends with somebody,yet they come into a chatroom and dont even bother to say hello,how r u,or even kiss my ass.To me thats a total disply of the term mentioned above!...Or you mail someone something at your expense,and all you ask for is the common courtsey to respond via e-mail that the package had arrived.NOW is that to much to ask someone for...especially when it didnt cost them a dime to recive that package??...I think NOT! JEALOUSY:Jealousy typically refers to the thoughts, feelings, and behaviors that occur when a person believes a valued relationship is being threatened by a rival. This rival may have no knowledge that he or she is threatening the relationship. Now...Why is the greeneyed monster so powerful among lets say "so called friends" and the reason I say "so called friends" is that I have seen first hand that some ppl will smile in anothers face,and turn around the next day and talk more shit about that same person it will make you sick to your stomach...Or a "so called friend" knows your insterest in someone,yet they will go behind your back and take it to the limit rather it be sleeping with that person while you are in the next room,or a meet up in private...Or even juss trying to tell lies to that person about you,in order to get their own satisfaction...at all cost! BACK STABBERS:A person that smiles in ur face but all the time they wanna take ur place... Boy am I seeing this kinda shit more and more in the Carolinas Chatroom folks!!For example A wonderful lady and dear friend who's never made any attempts to hurt,or destroy anyones life has become a recent victim of this shit known as BACK STABBERS!!...He husband overseas fighting for OUR country and OUR freedom was written to or IM'ED by one or more of these lying BACK STABBERS and was told that she was sleeping with another man in his absence,I personaly have never seen her carry herself in any was but CLASSY and RESPECTFUL and she did NOT derserve this type of shit from "so called friends" and this is a pretty much known fact that it came from a "so called friend"...Now it hasent been pin pointed excatly what "so called friend"it came from....and its possible there is more than 1 culprit...So be WARNED Carolina Chatters...Seems theres RUDE ASSES...JEALOUS PEOPLE,and damn BACK STABBERS among us all...so pls make sure you know who your REAL FRIENDS are....and try hard to weed out those "SO CALLED FRIENDS".... I send this with LOVE and RESPECT to those of you that are my TRUE FRIENDS~~~  ~~~ Alexandria05~~  |
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8/9/2007 12:21 pm |
Alexandria: Girl...I know too well first hand the sort of jealous, rude, and back stabbing these women are capable of on this site. I chalk it up to jealousy and low self esteem on their part. I love you for speaking your mind. I value you and respect your opinions. Much love, Redi
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8/9/2007 12:21 pm |
Whew, here is to hoping you feel better now girl! Lets Save A Horse and Ride Each Other,cowboywanted2day
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[SIZE 3]ONE MORE THING I BELIEVE WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND...SO THOSE OF YOU THAT LIKE DRAMA AND TROUBLE...YOU MIGHT DO ME THAT WAY..BUT I REFUSE TO LET YOU DO MY FRIENDS THAT WAY...SO BEWARE...IM WATCHING!!![/COLOR] Alexandria05~~
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Alex...........reason I stay in the rafters and watch!!!!! But being a nice guy, I never disrespect anyone regardless of the reason they are here. I see, the young ones wanting the old ones the old ones wanting the young ones. Married ones who only want singles, singles who only want married ones........ and when that doesn't happen, you are trash, a ho or a cheater. I fall in the later, never hid the fact, always straight up and have some friends here who know all and understand. So the easiest way is to slam the ones you are jealous of. Don't give a damn myself, been here a long time and have seen them come and go. I wholeheartedly agree it is wrong to tell on anyone here for whatever reason. BUT, if ya don't want your stuff in the street, don't tell or stay home, cause it ain't a secret long. If you remember, not long ago, thought i was sticking up for you and dayum gurl you didn't speak for months............ luv ya, Ya can't take this place serious, for every 2-3 real folks there is 6-7 that are pure fake. Mud
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^5 Babe!
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8/9/2007 5:46 pm |
Very Powerful, Alex...BRAVO! Warmest regards, Athos
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Well said Alex.
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Alex, You are a true friend. I know who my true friends are and who they aren't. I also am a firm believer that what goes around comes around. We are better people than the ones that want to start rumors. Some women are very caddy and jealous and will do anything they can to get what someone else has. Let them keep trying and in the end we all know that what they have is emptiness in thier life. For those of you that fit this...well good luck to you...you will need it because life will be very ahrd and lonely for you.  "Don't let the thorns keep you from smelling the roses"
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Alex, very powerful words. Maybe some folks will take heed to the message. I haven't been online here very long but I observe a lot. It's a crying shame the way some folks treat others. U know when I joined Affairlook, I thought people of this life style was very open and giving but I also wondered about how do u live this life-style without drama. I'm finding out u don't. I joined this site to have fun, meet some people (especially women), and hopefully get some sex, but to tell u the truth I'd rather get my sex, or lack of, the I've been doing it before i joined Affairlook. The other thing, folks that go to these parties should live by the saying of Las Vegas,"what goes on in Las Vegas, stays in Las Vegas." I hate to know that theres always going to be someone trying to stir up trouble, when everyone just wants to have fun. Life is just way to short for shit like this. Horney691955
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8/9/2007 8:38 pm |
Alex as always an awesome post! Be safe and stay sweet!
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8/10/2007 7:28 am |
Ahhh HA!!!...I see you all have seen the shit...herd the shit...and lawd help the fukers that did the shit!!! People certinally are RUDE,JEALOUS,and fukin BACK STABBERS....they are everywhere ya go in life...I got me a dose of it myself...and im sure some of you here know all about it...pretty fukin bad when a bitch smiles in ur face,asks about ur man and how the two of you are dewing,and then rides her ass off to meet him and fuks him...maybe he wasent ALL mine...but fact remains ...she knew I had been with him for a while....she knew I was in love with him(maybe he dont love me)BUT...theres a thing called R-E-S-P-E-C-T....and I have no problem giving it where its due  ...but I dont have a problem going off ona muthafucka when they cross the line and become DISRESPECTFUL to me or someone I care about...But to dew the shit that has been done **tapping foot**...I myself wouldnt have to think twice befor breaking a cunt down...you dont fuk with ppl that have been nothing but nice and respectful to ur sorry asses and to try and destroy wat god had brought together....THAT!!!...is for sure crossing the damn line....Alex....I see from the previous posts that theres WATCHERS now in the Carolinas...well guess the fuk wat?ADD MY BIG THICK,JUICY,ALLINYAFUKINFACE AZZ ISA WATCHING TOO  Its a crying shame that a CUNT...Cant Understand Normal Thinking...cant get her own damn man....and takes it out on someone that CAN!!!  and ......... This bling is for  to make her feel better todaySeaMist66~~   
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8/10/2007 4:42 pm |
Damn Alex, girl you're not keeping me informed pf whst's going on. Seriously, you don't see my ass in the chatroom that much anymore for all the reasons you stated. I feel I know who my true friends are and there are other ways to communicate with them without having to endure the shit in the chatroom. You know if I'm talkin' about you it is all good. Otherwise T keep my mouth shut. Spare If you wear out the old one be sure to have a ... SPARE 
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Spare we miss you in chat...come backkkkkkkkk i lubs ya!!! Alexandria05~~
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Seems to be a lot of crap going on in the Carolina room lately. This is the second blog I've seen on the subject this morning. I refuse to engage in a battle of wits with an unarmed man. - Winston Churchill
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8/11/2007 2:38 pm |
ALEX, AWESOME BLOG, G/F!! I TOTALLY AGREE W/ EVERYTHING U SAID! WOW, THAT IS TERRIBLE ABOUT UR FRIEND!!! PEOPLE ARE SO SELF-CENTERED, AND ONLY THINK ABOUT THEMSELVES. I'VE HAD SOME OF MY SO-CALLED FRIENDS TO DO SOME HORRIBLE THINGS, LIKE RUN AROUND W/ MY HUSBAND, WELL MY EX NOW. NEVERTHELESS, TRUE FRIENDS ARE RARE. IT'S HARD TO TRUST ANYONE THESE DAYS. PEOPLE ARE SO OBSESSED WITH THEIR OWN LIVES, THEY DONT CARE ABOUT OTHERS. IT'S SAD THAT THIS WORLD HAS BECOME SO EVIL AND WICKED. I'M GLAD THAT YOU STAND UP FOR WHAT U BELIEVE IN. GREAT JOB, G/F!! HUGGLES N KISSES!!!
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8/11/2007 6:54 pm |
wow, hi alexandria, I'm purty sure u seen me on Sea's page LOL, but damn I seen this on her page and I just had to comment on it! I AM SO GLAD that you posted this, damn, I thought I was the only one that was seeing this shit happen on here, apparently not! LOL I said in one of Sea's post that I have been on here a year and I have learned real quick that this site is nothing but one big ass small town. Everybody got to be sticking their noses where they don't need to be, that is why I have backed away from this shit, and I try and stay away from it as far as I can. It's like you cum on here to get away from the everyday bs that goes in your own life and to cum on here and get it from here too, it's just fuked up, sad, and pathetic. It really is. So, I only talk to those I want to talk to becuz I know I can totally trust them people but I applaud u gurl for putting this up, I think this blog needs to be highlighted on the front page of Affairlook LOL  Once again, ty here is sum bling for those kinds of folks LOL      lol
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alexandria05 replies on 8/11/2007 10:59 am: well im sorry that i seem to have added to the crap..was only defending a friend Hon, my comment wasn't aimed at you, just an observation. I agree with what you say. I always wonder about people who come into a matchmaking site cooing about love and all they spew is hate. I've seen it all too often in the blogs as well. I've defended friends myself. Good people have to stand up when good people get hurt.  I refuse to engage in a battle of wits with an unarmed man. - Winston Churchill
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What I wanna say is... Yes Ive used the term slut,bitches but ive never called any particular names...juss as ive seen and herd other from our chatroom do as well...I dont mind anyone bashing on me(it hurts)but as long as someone is bashing me,then they are leaving other alone...rather this is a SEX SITE or not...right is right and wrong is wrong as far as im concerned... Boy is messege archives a wonderful thing... SeaMist...thanks alot gf...I didnt realize I had conversations with others in a damn Archive...the proof is always in the pudding(juss like you said)...Luv Ya my bestfriend Alexandria05~~
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8/15/2007 10:42 am |
Alex, I think what you had to say was very well written/said. Its about time someone jumps up and says enuff shit! Dont worry about anyone givin u shit over this AT ALL. Sometimes it takes the sweet person like you are to stand up and scream to get everyones attention.
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Well said Alex.. Since coming into the Carolina's room and starting to chat just before the first m&g that I went to which was the last MB one. I have made some great friends and some I wouldn't cross the road if they got hit. I am a military spouse and a swinger as well. You know what this is a sex site and What I do is my business and my husbands. BTW I am not the one she is talking about for all those that are now going to jump to conclusions. I am a very open person though and I don't talk about anyone behind their back if I have a problem with someone I take it to them. I think for the most part I get along with everyone. There is definately alot of BS goes on and sometimes want to go we are adults y'all give it a rest and grow up. I love you Alex..... Your great don't ever change. Bunny
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I totally agree with you Alexandria. It's people like that who really make this world a sinister place. We all need to get along, but most importantly, be there for our friends when they are in need. You definitely do that.
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8/17/2007 7:02 am |
In the Grand Scheme of Life, sometimes when we respond to Lies and false assertions, we just give the JERKS more "Fuel" to Spread the Fire. All "fires" eventually BURN OUT. YOU can always count on REAL friends in a time of Need. YOU are a SPECIAL LADY.
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LOVE YA!!!
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