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Blogs > cheesesoda > chronicles of a soda

Desires of the Flesh - Women Needed  

cheesesoda 38M
18 posts
3/22/2007 11:16 am

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9/23/2007 7:18 pm
Desires of the Flesh - Women Needed

Well, it seems that my cousin's relationship has ended. His (ex-)girlfriend has "issues" she needs to figure out about herself and what she wants. Well, my cousin has decided that he's not going to wait for her, and now he just wants to live a single life and fuck girls.

This put thoughts into my mind that I just haven't been able to shake. I had these thoughts back in February, but now they're back with a vengeance. I need to fulfill the desires of the flesh before I go crazy. The thought of being able to slide in a tight, wet pussy is making me go crazy. I NEED that. I know it seems a bit daring to say "need", but I don't know what else to think. I've have these desires that I want to extinguish.

I'm not very bold, so I haven't really tried to take these desires anywhere. That and the combination of being in a (long-distance) relationship makes me a bit timid in trying to find someone. Though, if a girl takes on the initiative and suggests a hook-up, I don't know if I could resist. I don't know if I would want to.

I mean, I'm not looking for another relationship. The one I'm in now is great. I don't think I could find a better woman for me. The only problem is that we're 700 miles apart, and neither of us have the money to take trips back and forth on a regular basis. I doubt I would have any desire to sleep with other women if me and her lived close to each other. It's just the lust that has a hold of me.

Until I can be with her and move to be with her, I have two options. I can bang my head against the wall repeatedly to try and curtail these desires (which won't go away), or I can let loose and have sex with a few random women, having no emotional ties with them. I don't need love, I already have it. I just need sex.

Now to continue to hope that some woman will take on the initiative to help me out. A guy can dream, can't he?

HappyCouple5248 75M/72F

3/22/2007 1:58 pm

 Dream, yes... But, if you are going to take option 2 (sex with a few random women), I suggest you talk to your gf first - especially if you want to keep her forever. Women ALWAYS know if their men are screwing around, and she will find out eventually anyway.
My wife & I always allowed each other sexual freedom - even since before we were married, and we've been together for 32+ years and going strong. Honesty works, lies end up in divorce court.
If you can't talk about it with her, I suggest you find other outlets for your desires so as not to ruin your relationship with her... Unless you really don't care THAT much...
Also, if she "releases" you to have sex, be prepared for her to require the same... She has needs too, you know!
And don't fall for Bubba Bill's "Oral sex isn't sex" lie... Having someone else's body parts in your mouth and exchanging bodily fluids IS sex!
Good luck!


cheesesoda replies on 3/22/2007 2:42 pm:
My girlfriend wouldn't go for the open relationship idea, at least, she's seemed closed towards it even in light discussion. I'm giving her some liberties to some things that I'm not incredibly thrilled about to see where it leads. Until she loosens up (on her own) enough to allow for an open relationship, I'm going to have to be patient.

If I didn't care for her as much as I do, it'd be so much easier to be dishonest, but that's not me.

Thanks for forcing me to think a little clearer.

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