1448 posts 2/16/2017 2:44 pm
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Believe in love?
Oh, just to be clear...
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Right, ...love.
Do you believe in love? I do believe in love, those butterflies, that feeling, the exhilaration, the daydreaming, the racing heart, even love at first sight. I believe in love. Am I looking? Ermm, yes, ( hope dies last! ) ... yes as in possibly. Possibly is not really a clear definition, yeah, tell me about it. Will I find it? I don't think so. I believe in love for everyone...everyone else! I am 53, soon to change lol. Though it has nothing to do with my age in years, it has to do with my years of experience. Which comes from my age in years...ok, I am getting confused here.
I may be wiser than a 22yo, or not, but not as wise as a 54yo, yet! That is the experience I am thinking of. I can hear everyone saying love is there, where you at least expect it, it is never too late, and the rest. And I agree with all of it. But...I believe love happens to 1st timers. I have not fallen in love for a second time yet, to know anything about it. I know about polyamory, multi this or another edition of that, but I am more thinking one on one here. Have you fallen in love more than once? Please tell.
I am not bitter, or still in love with my ex. It is not the defensive walls. It is not distrust either. Could it have to do with the addiction of singledom? Hm, there is a thought here. Doing whatever you fancy whenever and wherever you wish, I find it extremely addictive. The raised personal standards, for the second time around? The way that some of us just raise them so high, for the next round, the next throw of the dice, another possible here. Is it may be because as the years pass, some of us, we become not bothered one way or another, because we feel so much more secure within our selves and the rest of the world around us, our own being, where we stand and where we going, what we want, what we getting. And of course there is this other thingy, about ''I believe'' and ''I wish'', when the two become sort of mixed, along other possibilities.
I see these last thoughts, the reasons I don't think I will find love, as described in the beginning. See? Nothing to do with age but to do with years.
You know when life is generally speaking, good? Easy on your head, just rolling by.
I don't want to wait another 20 years, until I become an official pensioner, to start taking it easy. I have started already, the here and now, in all aspects of life. It does not mean that I lack targets and aspirations, or different kind of dreams. I can just be happy and feel content with less. And life, it feels good. There is better and worse, as ever. I am just looking at mine. Have I been a single man for so long, that the next best thing would be to find a remote cave on some mountain and start hugging trees?
In the end, I am not missing love, I don't feel like I have a need for it. ( Was I missing love or had a need for it, when I first fell in love? Ah, good question, so, don't ask. We'll be here all night. And probably the best answer, as for the best place to be, not looking and where you least expecting it...). Love, if it happens, great. If not, that is not great, but it's good, which is still not a bad thing. I believe in love, just not bothered about it. And you? You may not be single, or looking, or whatever, but your two cents are always welcome. Thanx for reading.
Oh look...a couple of jokes
The Silent Treatment
A man and his wife were having some problems at home and were giving each other the silent treatment. Suddenly, the man realized that the next day, he would need his wife to wake him at 5 0 AM for an early morning business flight. Not wanting to be the first to break the silence (and LOSE), he wrote on a piece of paper, "Please wake me at 5:00 AM." He left it where he knew she would find it. The next morning, the man woke up, only to discover it was 9:00 AM and he had missed his flight Furious, he was about to go and see why his wife hadn't wakened him,
when he noticed a piece of paper by the bed. The paper said, "It is 5:00 AM. Wake up.
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An elderly couple had dinner at another couple's house, and after
eating, the wives left the table and went into the kitchen.
The two gentlemen were talking, and one said, "Last night we went out
to a new restaurant and it was really great. I would recommend it very
highly." The other man said, "What is the name of the restaurant?"
The first man thought and thought and finally said, "What is the name
of that flower you give to someone you love?
You know... The one that's red and has thorns." "Do you mean a rose?"
"Yes, that's the one," replied the man. He then turned towards the
kitchen and yelled, "Rose, what's the name of that restaurant we went to
last night?"
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"WITZELSUCHT"
From Dorland's Illustrated Medical Dictionary, 26th edition.
witzelsucht (vit'sel-zoocht) [Ger.] "A Mental condition characteristic of frontal lobe lesions and marked by the making of poor jokes and puns and the telling of pointless stories, at which the patient himself is immensely amused."
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4077 posts 2/16/2017 2:47 pm |
Witzelsucht (vit'sel-zoocht)? I am amused! Immensely  Any other WITZELSUCHTERS out there? We could create this group, called the WITZELSUCHTFUCKERS or something! I will run the London office lol. Might have to. Feels like I am so alone on this side of the pond. I find blog land here, oh so quiet. I am trying my best. I have invited all I know, ( counted in one hand, but it is the thought that counts ), as well as Auntie Dorothy, her neighbour, the dog, that other bloke and his sister, and the local priest. It still feels lonely  .
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4077 posts 2/16/2017 10:26 pm |
Hi aflower2c. Gave up on it? A false theory? Surely, for everyone who gave up, or everyone who is not bothered about it, there must be an equal number of people who swear it is there, and it's amazing, and it's even better the second time around, etc. With you giving up and me not bothered about it, I will never find out now! Thanx for the visit.
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32404 posts 2/17/2017 12:43 pm |
it is a good thing to find yourself amusing. I also find myself good company.
tbs, love finds you. usually when you aren't looking for it. so, your chances have just increased exponentially.........snork.
You cannot conceive the many without the one.
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4077 posts 2/17/2017 2:26 pm |
Quoting wickedeasy:
it is a good thing to find yourself amusing. I also find myself good company.
tbs, love finds you. usually when you aren't looking for it. so, your chances have just increased exponentially.........snork.
Oh! another witzelsuchter?
This love thing, seems just like father Christmas...you got to believe, to get a present! Thanx for your visit.
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4077 posts 2/18/2017 10:33 am |
aflower2c, I see what you mean by the ''love'' industry. If I got no present from my woman, at any occasion, I would be pretty upset, only if I remembered hers and got her something. Even a home cooked meal, a massage, or a nice bath prepared, whatever. Same for romance given, if nothing was coming back. Do us men give to receive? Not at all. But when we been nice to ...er indoors, we also like it to be returned, somehow. Love is not the governments, to rule about it. Love belongs to those 2, in that same house. Men are simple happy beings. I am a happy man, and know loads like me. Yeah, of course there is always the other side, with the oppressed, the victims and the constant complainers. All fingers are fingers, but not all fingers are the same. Now if a government made a rule for women on a first date, to turn up naked and bring beer, then men would be happier! Cheers!
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7262 posts 3/11/2017 5:59 pm |
I believe in love, I don't need it to be content though it would be a nice extra in life.
Vive La Difference
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4077 posts 3/11/2017 11:00 pm |
Quoting tickles4us:
I believe in love, I don't need it to be content though it would be a nice extra in life.
Tickles4us, it is the best place to be. A believer but not in need! This way, if it does happen is a nice thing, and if not, no one gets disappointed.
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