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Sexual Turn Ons
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Sexual Turn Ons Sex is a very interesting and complex form of pleasure. I believe that we can completely and fully enjoy sexual pleasure to maximum levels if we understand sex, understand and know what truly turns us on, be honest about those turn-ons AND observe the same of our partner(s). This requires a great deal of pre-discovery, honesty, confidence and self-acceptance. I have visited many sex sites and have secured a membership at a few online dating communities and have observed the following: everybody wants sex and they want really good sex. Some will lie and deceive to get really good sex. They will lie and deceive themselves, which in turn causes them to lie and deceive others. Others will pay for it, whether it is with money or in exchange for goods. My opinion is that really good sex CAN'T be really good fucking sex if it has been achieved through lies, deception or paid for. The reality is that really good sex is really good fucking sex when it is honest, true and free. When you are honest, true and free and you KNOW what really turns you on, and you express this openly and honestly to and with your partner, the rewards can be outstanding. I don't think one should ever compromise their deep hidden desires for anyone at any time EVER! If something turns you on, it's what TURNS you ON! Why deviate from what truly turns you on? YOU come first and should not allow or permit anyone to steer you away from that. My rule has always been that as long as it's not involving a or killing someone, you should be alright. You can even fuck your ferret if that turns you on. Anyway, I recently sat patiently and slightly aroused on a sex site observing conversation and masturbation exercises in one of the web cam chat rooms. It was entertaining and educational for me. Mind you, I was only observing for my own purposes and was able to do so because I am not visually stimulated. Which leads me to the purpose of this discussion: Sexual Turn-Ons. This is very interesting. Have you taken a moment to seriously consider and think deeply about what turns you on and WHY? The "why" is so deeply interesting and self-revealing. I had to sit and consider my self before writing this. There are some things that bring me sexual pleasure more than anything else in the world. For example, I cannot achieve complete sexual pleasure from watching a pornographic film unless it's an amateur film. Reason being is that deep down inside my head, I am thinking on the level that the participants are pretending and that I am only watching a 'show' of people getting paid to fuck. They are not 'connected' and they are 'pretending to feel pleasure'. It is, therefore, unreal. It is fake. I can't enjoy it because, to me, it is a deception. If I am going to watch a pornographic film, it had better be an amateur film where the people involved are not 'actors' and are real people engaging in RAW activity, though they may play up to the camera... there's a bit more reality with the show. This will bring me more sexual pleasure than the attractive actors pretending to be engaged in really good sex. Most of you know that I was raised a musician, which therefore makes me an "ear" person. Someone able to identify the pleasure of sound, detect notes, chords, tone, etc. I'm not sure if this concludes why I am sexually stimulated by REAL sound and I'm still thinking about this, but I've got to say that I am 100% stimulated by the sound of one receiving/giving pleasure. Most of you through conversation know that I LOVE to talk. Talking is one of my favourites. I am stimulated by conversation as a person, and as such, considered a great communicator. I LOVE to communicate. It brings me great pleasure to communicate and to be in communication. I am, therefore, sexually stimulated by communication involving sex, prior to sex, and during sex. Just don't talk to me after sex. (LOL!) So... here are the two: I am sexually turned-on by the sound of your voice, your breathing, your moans, your groans, our conversation during sex... which, by the way could be you speaking latin, spanish, german, italian, counting from 1 to 100 or reciting the alphabet in greek. As long as you are communicating to me while you slide a finger inside me and LOOK at me... into my eyes, I will moisten. That's another point! Eye contact. If, during sex, our eyes meet and stay locked, I will spring a leak. The connection through sound, communication and eye contact brings the pleasures of sex to an extremely high level for me and I am continuing to think about how and why. All the other stuff: sexual positions, sex toys, the location of the act itself... is just fluff for me. On the other hand, here's what I've observed about others. Some become aroused within seconds just by looking at another or something that reminds them of a fantasy or a previous sexual experience. Some are aroused with just a mere thought. Something totally unreal and that may never happen. Some are aroused by smell, and I'm finding this to be true with many men these days more than ever. Discussion will be held about the scent of a woman's hair, her skin, her feet, her ass, her pussy, her armpits. Pheremones, the natural way to lure one to the bedroom, is what I'm hearing a lot of these days. The smell of a lover can really drive one ANIMAL wild. I have discovered that with kinks and fetishes, another interesting sexual topic, some are aroused with things or situations considered abnormal by most. I know a man who CANNOT get an erection unless he's wearing women's silky stockings. He has an attachment to women's pantyhose and that's what will turn him on and that thought will make him come. Another friend, a female, will not become aroused without her arms tied or hands handcuffed to something. Anything. As long as she's tied or cuffed, she will become aroused and will come at the very thought of being tied or cuffed. Believe this or not, I know someone who, upon the very taste of chocolate, becomes so aroused, she can experience an orgasm if she doesn't find someone to fuck right then and there. Can you imagine passing her a chocolate bar in the middle of the day and watching her facial expression and how when she disappears to the ladies room to masturbate the fuck out of herself. I've observed it and it IS funny! She has an attachment to sex and chocolate. Some heterosexual men LOVE getting fucked up the ass with a dildo and they are NOT gay! They LOVE to suck cock, but they are NOT gay and hate to be referred to as bi-sexual. They just occasionally enjoy the taste and the act of sucking another man's cock. They fuck pussy and enjoy fucking women and chase women and have wonderful and fulfilling lives fucking bitches, but they are NOT gay. They love the pleasure of their ass being probed. And who wouldn't? It's the best orgasm ever! Better than clitoral and vaginal. That's another discussion. I have had sex with a few HOT women. I am not gay. I am not bi-sexual. So, I understand this. I am a sexual woman. I will make love to a woman or a man or both at the same time. (LOL!) I hate 'categorizing' people and their sexual orientation. Submissive, Dominant. Gay, Straight. We are sexual beings and when the desire to be sexual hits us like a cement brick, you can be anywhere and with anyone. If the sexual chemistry unfolds naturally, why will you NOT go for it especially if we are all consenting adults? Anyway, I have girlfriends who are very comfortable and secure with who they are and feel free to get naked on my queue. Yes, I am the ringleader and often considered the Dominatrix of my pack. (I'm not really, but like to make others think I am. It's actually pretty funny.) Us ladies are happy with our sexual desires and enjoy fucking the man in our life. We are sexy and free and happy to make love to and with each other should we feel the urge to. Now, do we get together every night and say let's fondle each other’s breasts? No. Do you take your woman every time you're with her? Probably not. Back to the sexual chat room. I noticed that upon observing the conversations and watching people stroking their cocks and clitori that the demands were interesting, varied and unique: Some guys without a cam demand women/men/couples/trans/bi's to turn their cams on with sound; Some guys without a cam demand women/men/couples/trans/bi's to turn just their cams on; Some guys without a cam demand women/men/couples/trans/bi's to turn their cams on with sound in private chat; Some guys without a cam demand women/men/couples/trans/bi's to turn just cams on in private chat; I can go on with this list, but you can see that mathematically, there are probably thousands of variations to just these four different requests. Some guys prefer hispanic women, blondes, someone with toys, someone fucking another on cam. I watched a poor soul demand someone, ANYONE to just watch him masturbate. All he needed was to know that someone, ANYONE was watching... and that was good enough for him to sustain a solid erection and explode. The requests are quite similar for the women, though I noticed something that I've never observed before. There were MORE women asking to view men on their cams who had audio. Very fucking interesting, I thought to myself. Perhaps this sexual stimulation to sound is a female thing. I am still considering this. Particularly since we are considered the loud-mouthed, talkative communicators. I shall re-address this later. Upon turning MY cam and playing with my clitoris I observed something rather interesting. Not ONE guy asked me to turn my sound on. This stunned me since I've been told that I sound good when I come. I'm not sure of that, since I have never heard a recording of myself coming. Who knows.... probably something to do for 2007! LOL! Anyway, I am still on a quest to observe sexual behaviour and turn-ons, etc. Another thing I am continuing to look for is the 'macho men' syndrome in straight men who I'd love to see suck the cock of another man. While us girls can do it and do it freely to other girls, I want to really understand why it's not okay for Doug to say to Bill, "hey bud, I'm feeling like fucking you up the ass tonight. Bring lube". (This may be continued)  |
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2/1/2007 6:14 pm |
Hi there, I don't know if you remember me, but we cammed together. I'm glad you joined my network and that you write. Maybe we can get to know each other. If you read my profile, you know that I am relational...one of so many topics you raise. At first, I was hesitant to respond at all, because no matter how much I wrote, how could I respond to everything you said. But in time, I find, the really important things recur and become resolved between people. Your mind floweth over sweetie, I'd love to talk sometime with you. Come read my blog and see if you like my thinking. Kisses, tim
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Very interesting. When I saw you in the chat room the other night working on your clean puss I didn't need any sound.I did notice that some of the other guys were also enjoying the show. I will say that when haveing sex with a woman I do like to hear her moan and respond to what I'm doing to her.It gives me a sense that I'm actually giving her pleasure. Better than a pat on the back. LOL. The more she expresses pleasure the more turned on I will be. I have to say that your pussy is beautiful.I'ld spend hours licking and sucking and probing just to drink your sweet juices. I don't concider myself a prude or anything but a guy doing a guy is just plain gay.And if you don't like the term gay then it just ain't right. I know it doesn't make sense but doing a woman up the ass is fine but not a guy. Maybe I'm not as free minded as I thought but I think it has to do with the fact that women seem to enjoy it alot more than a guy would. Women can cum by anal sex but I've not heard of a guy cumming from getting ass dicked. Have you? I've had a couple of prostrate exams and there is nothing pleasureable about that. Having the doc shove a finger up my ass felt more like a 2x4 and it didn't feel good at all.
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2/5/2007 7:48 am |
When we lie to ourselves to get sex is one thing but when we lie to out potential partner...well that is a totally different story all together. If you try to cheat yourself you are the one who loses but when you add your partner why even pother to try. If your sexual preference or likes is different from your partner...sure the short term sex might be good...but who only wants short term good. I want long term hot, sensual, and awesome sex. Now you good call me old fashioned but when I get to know and I really mean "get to know" my partner...well then the sex is always hot and awesome for both. Now I am not saying that you have to move in together or for that fact become girlfriend and boyfriend....but with the understanding of what you both are looking for the possibilities are endless. Bottom line.....say what you mean and mean what you say. Less confusion that way. Plus you both will get what you are looking for out of life. I have had the privilege of watching MsMoist a few times...but as of yet had the opportunity to cam with her. There is not much more in life more sensual than a sexy lady who is wet but when she turns out to be a squirter or someone that gets even more wet when she cums...WOW MsMoist.....I look forward to the day that I have the privilege of not only watching you again...but the chance to cam with you. Till then Keep the passion hot, wet, and wild. Cheers MrAverage42
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