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RESPECT : WE all NEED to do Better
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The newest form of blog manipulation involves whether or not vag and tit pictures mean "signing" a pledge of sorts...saying you will only receive those naughty pics IF you comment on her blog. And promise to not visit or comment on anyone's blog she doesn't approve of. How can this behavior be ignored anymore? It's rather revolting. If this were the first time she had done something like this...it could be maybe looked over as a rookie move...but it has been repeated more than one time over the years. When does she finally get punished...really punished...not just a slap on the wrist? How many more people does she have to demean...manipulate...shame...bully...all around HURT before something gets done? I know you are doing your best...but honestly something should have been done years ago...and then the people she has currently targeted...would have not had to go through any of this bullshit.. I'm in agreement...the list needs to GO...it is the root of all the problems we are talking about now...and have been talking about for years. Just my take. Smooches Welcome Back Hon. Thank you so much for pointing all of this out. I heard about the pledge post and at first I thought it was a joke but no..along with the death threat list this was true too..Just as true and evil as the obscene petition she created to target a more popular blogger. I also agree that the TOU needs to be strictly enforced. In the 90's when the site was new those TOU were followed 100 %. If you were in a chat room and tried to give out your messenger info you were kicked out of the room, the site and faced banning and deletion..and that was just for saying " I M Me @..." I believe in second chances but after numerous complaints are filed from both men and women all over the world..then it is time to do something to protect members from a situation and a blogger that has escalated beyond normal, decent human behavior. Demean..manipulate...shame...Bully...HURT/Abuse..Those are the Exact actions the blogger has exhibited. It is time for an end to that cursed blog list rankings and to members who can not and will not follow the TOU. Last time I checked Andrew owned this site and it is called Affairlook.. Thank you Hugss & Happy Tues, Ana6 I done made the devil a deal He made me pretty He made me smart 
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ok another 2 cents from ole me..... reading your response .. how often you have talked to andrew, How many blogs an rules have been broken in this area... an he says it takes a week to know what is going to happen?????? if it costs Affairlook one dollar even in membership lost... is that week really worth it... or is it showing that Affairlook likes the added interest its getting now in blogland??? I wouldnt need a week to make my decision... ok that was a unplanned response.. Hope you have a good day an that smile finds your way again today 
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I agree with you on the respect.. but to tell you the truth.. i think i would settle for TOLERANCE the ability or willingness to tolerate something, in particular the existence of opinions or behavior that one does not necessarily agree with: "the tolerance of corruption" · synonyms: acceptance · toleration · open-mindedness · respect should be something attained.. something you work on yourself , for others to respect you. but we should all tolerate everyone , and anyone. if i m wrong, just tolerate my answer you don t have to respect me..LOL.. good blog.. some time these are needed more than funny, sexy, or erotic ones.. Thank you My Friend for stopping by. I appreciate your comments. I think Respect & Tolerance go hand in hand. I do respect you hon and all of my friends/members who respect others rights to exist. Due to that horrible petition and the aftermath I had to write this. We must never forget or shy away from bringing up this obscene memory..if we forget we might have to repeat this ugly incident. #WEStandWithNice #SayNoToBullies #Respect #WeAreNotAfraid Hugsss, Ana6 I done made the devil a deal He made me pretty He made me smart
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You are easy to stand behind Thalia. Your own behavior shows what you're made of. You made all this happen because you refused to back down. I'm the one who is in YOUR debt. You make me a better person, and I'm so proud of you!  Happy Tues My Friend, You were one of the first members I noticed who was blogging about the petition and through you I saw the other great bloggers who stood up & stood tall. #WeStandWithNice Hugs, Ana6 I done made the devil a deal He made me pretty He made me smart
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ok another 2 cents from ole me..... reading your response .. how often you have talked to andrew, How many blogs an rules have been broken in this area... an he says it takes a week to know what is going to happen?????? if it costs Affairlook one dollar even in membership lost... is that week really worth it... or is it showing that Affairlook likes the added interest its getting now in blogland??? I wouldnt need a week to make my decision... ok that was a unplanned response.. Hope you have a good day an that smile finds your way again today Happy Tues. Thank you for understanding I am doing the best I can. I know exactly what the cost to the site is. I feel your frustration & concerns. In this case bad publicity is not good for anyone here. Not the site, the employees or members. ALL I can say it is being worked on. I just got off the phone with Legal dept. Once more, I am doing the best I can to resolve this. Ana6 I done made the devil a deal He made me pretty He made me smart
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You already know I agree with you, Hot. goodatpoetry2 has a very good alternative to the current list that I think might work very well. You're a much loved and well respected blogger here. Your comment will reach a lot of members, and help them to make the right decision.  Thank you for your comment and Hot is right. We need to change that damm list so folks never have to suffer as Nice & our entire LBGTQ community has. Hugs, Ana6 I done made the devil a deal He made me pretty He made me smart
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Missy, We need to work on the TOU, the Mea Culpa and to have members who can't follow the rules all the rest of us follow be removed from all Various Inc sites. This nonsense has reached intolerable levels. The abuse & the threats and bullying has to stop. Hugs, Ana6 I done made the devil a deal He made me pretty He made me smart
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Thank you. As I said yo you before. you have nothing to feel bad about it. you got work on signing that thing. that is what she was doing. pushing people to sign. Sometimes we do things not knowing better. maybe you tho that was the right thing to do at that time. wherever it is. I have no hard feelings tours you or anyone that sign it. because nothing of that would/should had happen. with out the creation of that petition. I also appreciate and admired the fact that when you found out that it was all personal and about me. You came forward. you came clean and Apologized. I appreciate that. but it was not even necessary. I hold nothing against anyone that sign it. I sent you a friend request. lets be friends, patch things up and move on. you are more than welcome to my blog, email or profile. Please don't feel bad or guilty. someone else should be the one feeling that way. NOT You. Happy Tues  Once again hon..You are showing the size of your heart and character. I admire you and your positive spirit.Have a Great day, Ana6 I done made the devil a deal He made me pretty He made me smart
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Very well said!  Thank you so much for the validation and for stopping by and sharing your thoughts with all of Us. Have a Great day, Ana6 I done made the devil a deal He made me pretty He made me smart
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Tx, Happy Tues. Thank you for understanding I am doing the best I can. I know exactly what the cost to the site is. I feel your frustration & concerns. In this case bad publicity is not good for anyone here. Not the site, the employees or members. ALL I can say it is being worked on. I just got off the phone with Legal dept. Once more, I am doing the best I can to resolve this. Ana6 I like yur blog an your way of talking to each person who writes you, never take any of my 2cents as bad against you.. never the intent or meaning .. in what you can do, in what you are trying we all thank , praise, an admire you
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Missy, Happy Tues Babe. I was very happy to forward the blog to him. I thought you did a brilliant job and so well said. Hugs, Ana6 I done made the devil a deal He made me pretty He made me smart
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Beautifully written and illuminating blog post - thanks for sharing! Much respect is indeed due on these forums. Thank you for finding my blog and sharing your generous compliment with Me and all of Us. Thank you for agreeing. Simple Respect and tolerance of all is such a small thing to ask for and when given and shared with others the results can be HUGE. Happy Tues, Ana6 I done made the devil a deal He made me pretty He made me smart
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Thank you for this articulate and insightful post. If someone so blatantly and consistently breaks the TOUs , they should be banned for life. The individual doesn't pay to be on here so there's no lost revenue for the site except for the men who pay to drool at their pics. With the worldwide membership, surely it wouldn't hit the site's bottom line enough to make a difference  Thank you for sharing your thoughts with all of Us . I agree if a member constantly and consistently breaks the TOU, bullies , lies, stalks, harms, shames a fellow member then asks her so called " men " to harm those members...well right there..THAT is the end of that member on any site. Thank you for your great post, Happy Tues, Ana6 I done made the devil a deal He made me pretty He made me smart
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great post. i've often wondered if the total number of comments is counted including the replies by the blogger. if so, some bloggers choose to hit the respond and others to cut and then respond which is another comment... seems a bit unfair in the counting end of things. i have no turf in this battle so just an aside. Happy Tues. Love that handle name. I always try to quote so that in case someone missed the original post they can then see it in my reply. I am doing what I can to adjust that darn blog list which seems to feed and fuel the mania over being Number 1. I think every blogger belongs in the number 1 spot as long as their blogs do not defame or shame, bully , humiliate another blogger/member. Thank you for stopping by & sharing, Happy Tues, Ana6 I done made the devil a deal He made me pretty He made me smart
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excuse me....... i should say that anyone who cannot respect the LBGTQ community needs to take a step back and consider why they are on a site that considers itself open and unrestricted. Thank you so much for stating this so brilliantly. I could not have said it better myself. Have an awesome day, Ana6 I done made the devil a deal He made me pretty He made me smart
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Dear Lady Leo, Happy Tues Thank you so much for your fascinating post. I think Our parents must have known each other because I was raised the same way. I do not judge lest I be judged and found wanting. I am in the entertainment business but I would never think I need to hurt someone or compete to be the bigger, hotter or more popular in my field. I love to see EVERYONE feel special & applauded. I'd rather rise surrounded by my equals then rise alone standing on my betters. Happy Tues, Ana6 I done made the devil a deal He made me pretty He made me smart
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Dear Author, Welcome to my Blog. Thank you for finding it & for your comment. I am sorry fr what you had to go through too just for being popular. I agree with you it is so sad when adults on a free web site can not handle other members being more liked or popular. Competition is sometimes not healthy for those not stable enough to deal with the ups/downs of life, whether it be online or offline. Thank you so much for your kind words. I really appreciate them. Happy Tues, Ana6 I done made the devil a deal He made me pretty He made me smart
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Thank you. Thank you for stopping by and caring enough to comment. Have a fantastic Tues, Ana6 I done made the devil a deal He made me pretty He made me smart
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I have been missing for a few days and on my return I found so many on my watched list were pimping this post....I can see why. It is a great post and I have to thank you for it. There is no need for any of us to be disrespectful here and going back over the years it seems as if it is that "LIST" that has caused most of the drama and nastiness. I know we tried to get rid of it when EN was top blogger. Perhaps now the site will see that it is time to showcase the blogs in some way without the competitive aspect....then those members who bash others in their attempt to reach the top spot won't have any reason to behave so badly. Thank you again. Happy Tues Hon & so great to see and read you here. Thank you for my smile right now & for your kind and generous words about my blog post. I believe I have said I never saw or interacted with the infamous EN..I heard the horror stories though and was shocked. We need to lose the list and just showcase all blogs, whether by region or type or just here are some blogs...go look..anything that takes the numbers and popularity contest aspect of it away. Thank you so much Hugs,Ana6 I done made the devil a deal He made me pretty He made me smart
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Great to see you back blogging again! Well said!!!! hugssssssssssss V How lovely to see you here Thank you for your kind words. I knew it was time to get back to blogging but wish it had been something happier then this topic of such obscene sadness. Thankfully, we are pulling something Great out of this horror tale.Hugsss, Ana6 #AllForOneAndOneForAll #NoMoreBullies I done made the devil a deal He made me pretty He made me smart
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well said!!!! Thank you so Much for your lovely words. Very kind of you and I appreciate it so much. Have an awesome day, Ana6 I done made the devil a deal He made me pretty He made me smart
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Hello My Friends, I apologize that it is taken so long to get my replies up on this post. All pages from 1-3 are done & replied to. I have 12 posts to reply to on Page 4 then we are all Up to date. Hugss for your patience with me. I am aware of the so called Death or Kill List compiled with the names of the majority of members here. I have been stalked in the past by a woman from this site..and a man from an ABC news website I used to talk to friends who worked there at ABC. I have been coached by the FBI and Local Police on how to deal with threats, death threats etc. This is a clear violation of the TOU and against USA Federal Law. This site keeps a record of such violations and they can be used in a court of law. The site also knows where the computers involved in this KILL List are located. Please save any evidence you have of threatening emails and if you spot those posts in advice line , etc..Please grab a screenshot and report it. I also have friends in News Media and if it should become necessary, they are willing to help stop the threats and those involved in making them. Stay Safe while online and if you or your family feel threatened in any way by these members please call your local Police & FBI. THIS is Cyber Crime at its worst. Happy Tues Hugs, Ana6 I done made the devil a deal He made me pretty He made me smart
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Missy, Thank you for sharing this. I just put this directly into Andrew's hands. I'll let you know what happens. Happy Tues Hugs, Ana6 I done made the devil a deal He made me pretty He made me smart
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ohhhhhhhh dont get me wrong,, i an all of us know your trying... an you dont even have to being a volunteer.. shows the lady who lives inside you is truly caring... my point was only , if it takes a week to make a decision on whats wrong an should be dealt with... after all the comments after all the blogs... its for a reason.. an i am not sure the reason is a good one.... I like yur blog an your way of talking to each person who writes you, never take any of my 2cents as bad against you.. never the intent or meaning .. in what you can do, in what you are trying we all thank , praise, an admire you Oh Hon I know what you meant. I am just so exhausted and trying to do everything at once and feeling like I am letting you all down. I promise not to give up..I will keep on fighting until this site is SAFE for everyone and those that would threaten to murder members and their families are locked up some place, jail or a mental hospital. Hugss & Happy Tues My Friend & Thank you for explaining, Ana6 I done made the devil a deal He made me pretty He made me smart
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i agree missy an have wrote the same thing... the members of Affairlook deserve to know an it will only mean something from him an his actions... An poor ana has taken the blunt of things, tried to answer honestly an tired to help members... she has done what was asked of her, an i am glad it wasnt me who had t field all the bitching, complaints, etc.. but all of us do know she has tried an done more than most... including the site after being asked to help, time now for Affairlook to act
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