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Let it be.  

Wyldtyme2nite 52M/53F
107 posts
4/9/2008 10:21 pm

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9/10/2009 2:28 pm

Let it be.


I wrote this in response to Freelove's post today. I wanted to share it with you.

Your definition of how you prefer marriage to be maybe different from me or many on here as you have stated but we respect eachothers belief. To me marriage is about individuals spending the rest of their lives together. It maybe two or it maybe three or many. How ever you choose to live your life is your own. But many unfortunately are programmed through religion to think a certain way which as you stated robs us.

3 years ago we hit the wall. Same as when a runner hits a wall, you have a decision to make you can either quit or try to work through it. I choose to work through it we did talk and for the first time we were honest with eachother. We realized that we love eachother but would love to explore things together and individually. It does not mean we love eachother less or disrespect eachother. On the contrary we love eachother more and respect eachother more that we are willing to share our soulmates with others.

Its hard enough to live in the closet when society frown and disdains such behaviour when it is natural. What makes our situation worse is we yearn to find another female we can welcome to our home that will have our as my wife is not able to have any. At first we were not sure about it. How do we hide that, how do we explain this is my wife and this is our girlfriend and these are our . My mom I believe would be fine with it in time but her parents would probably disown us.

Dispite all that worry we have decided to proceed and if we find that special female to bare our great. If not then we will continue to explore and enjoy our sexuality. Sexuality is a most human trait. The instinct to be intimate with someone you find attractive. It is so natural but yet we supress it. It can be lustful and/or loving. Ultimately its an enjoyment that makes us alive. How beautiful it is to be connected spiritually, emotionally and bodily. Letting the waves of pleasure cascade over us. How can that be wrong. I wish we could find someone like you nearby. I am sure she is out, ashamed of her feelings and thoughts if only she were to accept that it is natural and not a sin. If only society would let us be. Like John lennons song. No war, all living as one. I only wish I remembered more.

rm_deviant12use 53M
2 posts
4/20/2008 6:30 pm

intresting...

what gets me is the very religon that says ...as Bush called it, god says one man and one woman...

yet i would swear the bible was full of gods words...
and those were...
concubines..
many wives.. (oh snap..abraham)
and a little story of a man who labored 7 years, and got snookered into getting hitched with 1 sister, only to have to labor another 7 years to marry the sister he loved... hmmmm. gotta love the hypocracy

and all this ... yea whatever.
love when those cannot live by their own morals and ethics, and adapt words of others abliet diquised as religion/politics.. and condem those who choose not to...


BadAssBlonde1 64F
4988 posts
5/22/2008 8:09 am

I despise organized religion. To me, it has made some good friends, now enemies. They think there is one way and I don't buy into that, at all. Go for what you two want, and the hell with everyone else. The Family will do 2 things ... they will or will not come around but one thing is for sure ... they'll not deny a baby. I'd put good money on that One *S*

After all the sex is gone, there is the mind - Lady Hunter / BAB

Copyright © House of Lady Hunter 1998-2009


Wyldtyme2nite 52M/53F
846 posts
7/2/2008 9:40 am

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I do my best but society makes it tough.


Wyldtyme2nite 52M/53F
846 posts
7/2/2008 9:42 am

    Quoting rm_deviant12use:
    intresting...

    what gets me is the very religon that says ...as Bush called it, god says one man and one woman...

    yet i would swear the bible was full of gods words...
    and those were...
    concubines..
    many wives.. (oh snap..abraham)
    and a little story of a man who labored 7 years, and got snookered into getting hitched with 1 sister, only to have to labor another 7 years to marry the sister he loved... hmmmm. gotta love the hypocracy

    and all this ... yea whatever.
    love when those cannot live by their own morals and ethics, and adapt words of others abliet diquised as religion/politics.. and condem those who choose not to...
I agree. Look at the koran, it is similar to the bilbe it preaches tolerance and yet you have those that want to destroy. Gotta love religion when it is corrupted.


Wyldtyme2nite 52M/53F
846 posts
7/2/2008 9:46 am

    Quoting BadAssBlonde1:
    I despise organized religion. To me, it has made some good friends, now enemies. They think there is one way and I don't buy into that, at all. Go for what you two want, and the hell with everyone else. The Family will do 2 things ... they will or will not come around but one thing is for sure ... they'll not deny a baby. I'd put good money on that One *S*
That why I doubt my mom will have a problem, it my child, L's parents my not be too happy. But if it happens great if not we still have eachother.

As for religion, there is a movement to organize paganism. Great another belief organized into blind obedience. Gotta love humanity.


Wyldtyme2nite 52M/53F
846 posts
7/2/2008 9:50 am

    Quoting  :

We came close once, but your right, she caved to her insecurities and went back to her abusive boyfriend. A woman with a man and a woman, society frowns on, even though she was happy. At least we did not verbally and physically abuse her. But since society accepts a man and a woman regardless of the fact the guy is a jerk, she choose to conform to society. We still wonder what became of her. Hell we still love her. Hope she is happy.


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