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Comfort Zone...  

shysexual_MTgirl 42F  
760 posts
7/29/2014 12:28 pm

Last Read:
7/29/2014 1:49 pm

Comfort Zone...


We all have one. Some are bigger than others. Mine is fairly decent. I can go out on the town alone and not care. I will talk to pretty much anyone who initiates a conversation with me. But when it comes to meeting new men, my comfort zone shrinks.

Well, I'm trying to change that. Normally, I travel to meet a man, if I'm intrigued and interested enough. I'm more comfortable that way. I'm extremely interested in meeting this new guy I've started talking to, and would be more than willing to travel to see him. But our schedules don't mesh well any time soon. So, I said he could come here, since I'm currently working and he's on his off days. Once I commit to a man driving that far just to see me, there will be no backing out. Plus, he sounds like he'll be a great out of town friend to have. But I'm nervous. You know me. My little doubts and self-conscious thoughts will be getting into my head all day. I think it makes me worry about it more since he's traveling to see me.

Everyone is different in bed. Their likes, their dislikes, their kinks and fantasies. What is kinky to one person might seem totally normal to another. I'm pretty open minded when it comes to sex...or at least I like to think I am. lol So, I guess I just have to be myself. He already told me he likes women who talk dirty...check. He likes women who enjoy themselves in bed...double check. I sent him a current picture , and told him what my body looks like. (Big body)

Well, it looks like I don't have to worry. Something for work came up. I'm pretty bummed. As nervous as I was, I was pretty excited. He wants me to drive there. If I didn't work tomorrow, I would drive there in a snap.

Guess I could've deleted this blog, but I'm curious to find out what you've done that's out of your comfort zone??

tedbear472 76M
807 posts
7/29/2014 1:35 pm

Scheduling can often times be a problem. I always prefer meeting the first time during the daytime in a public place. That way either one can walk away without any hassles. Just saying.


flowerkings2012 60M
4312 posts
7/29/2014 12:40 pm

As a man with who has always had trouble attracting women, any form of initiating contact with females has me well outside my comfort zone, I'm afraid


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