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Blogs > rm_bimble3 > Paul on AFF (( AKA Bimble3 ))

Dom/me / sub relationships , What works ?  

rm_bimble3 65M
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11/21/2006 4:02 am

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2/19/2011 8:02 pm
Dom/me / sub relationships , What works ?

Be advised that this is just My opinion and is open for discussion.

Everybody knows, or should know, that a true Dominant is aware that they are "different" at a very early age. They are the type that will organise and allocate certain people to sides when playing games in the schoolyard etc etc, it is in their very nature to be Dominant, even at infancy.
So my discussion is this:-
Can an "ordinary" person become Dominant and be able to satisfy the needs of a sub effectively enough to have a wonderful, long lasting relationship ?
Now within this question, I am assuming that the "Dominant" has the full understanding of a D/s relationship and embraces the principles within.

I don't think that this is possible, I feel that the so called Dominant, will eventually cause "harm" to him/herself and/or the submissive. If they are a true sub, then I doubt that the relationship will last, even if it gets to the "meeting" stage, which I don't think would happen ! A true sub will "see" that the "Dom/me" is not naturally a Dom/me and probably move on to find a true Dom/me, and quickly !!
I believe the interactions between true Dom/mes & subs cannot be "learnt" it has to be within their very natures to be Dominant & submissive.

Now, if the reverse is true, ie a person wanting to go from "ordinary" to sub, I wonder whether these two will be able to co-habit to have a fulfilling "D/s" relationship....... of sorts ?
those that study, learn & want the lifestyle for the benefit of their wants & needs ? Is it possible, or would it be a complete disaster ?

I am certain in my own mind that the initial scenario would end up as a tragic disaster, but as to the second scenario, I am curious to view your opinions.

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