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Arrogant?
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Arrogant? ARE WOMEN ATTRACTED TO ARROGANT AND COCKY GUYS I have a question for all the ladies out there . I had been reading this article by this fellow who goes by the name David Dangelo. Now , Mr. Dangelo made the claim that women are attracted to arrogant and cocky guys .My question to all you ladies out there is can you support the author's claim (Mr. Dangelos claim)???  |
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From a guy's perspective, I think that there is a big difference between the arrogant/cocky guy, and the one who is humble, but oozing with confidence in himself. I really don't like arrogant people, but if someone is very confident in him or herself, that attracts me to them. Confidence is something built up over years of trusting one's self. Arrogance and cockiness seem to be traits people adapt to in order to cover up some other short comings. Just my two cents. Ken
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SoyKofla2, YES! I did copy this! But, regardless....its STILL A QUESTION! I noticed you've gone this in other members blogs AND in the ad lines many times. Feel better now? I know its a weekend but are you really THAT bored? or...do you work for the FBI? Cuff me!!! oH Geeez! Sue me! PS~ That pic up there reminds me....well, you know...... Have a nice day!
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I like cocky guys! Oh wait......maybe I read that wrong...... If you should die before me, ask if you can bring a friend........
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Arrogance can be mistaken for confidence and unfortunately, I have been hurt by men of this caliber before. So, yes! I would say that arrogance can be attractive. But, confidence is is even more attractive. I agree totally with potbelliedman! Happy Saturday! kisskiss   {=}kisses, hugs, and sweet soft licks{=}
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I like cocky guys! Oh wait......maybe I read that wrong...... Nah...I'm sure you havent! hehe...
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From a guy's perspective, I think that there is a big difference between the arrogant/cocky guy, and the one who is humble, but oozing with confidence in himself. I really don't like arrogant people, but if someone is very confident in him or herself, that attracts me to them. Confidence is something built up over years of trusting one's self. Arrogance and cockiness seem to be traits people adapt to in order to cover up some other short comings. Just my two cents. Ken Well, your 2 cents made sense! Very well put...Thank you!
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saint, LOL...Thanks!
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BICURINTX, I'm with you 100% on what you just said. I couldnt tell you how many men I totally withdrew from as soon as I got a taste of their arrogance and cockiness. I like humor and I aim to look for it in a man.
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Arrogance can be mistaken for confidence and unfortunately, I have been hurt by men of this caliber before. So, yes! I would say that arrogance can be attractive. But, confidence is is even more attractive. I agree totally with potbelliedman! Happy Saturday! kisskiss Yes...I've agree with potbeeliedman too. I just prefer a man to show a "nonconceit"(if thats a word.) by being too stuck on himself. Happy Saturday to you too! PS~ Where's your blog?
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From my own point of view I think I'm very confident in me and it shows, because I've been through quite a lot of what life has to offer - good and bad. I'm very happy just being me nowadays, and if people don't like it, who cares, they generally do I have to say. I think a lot of girls might be attracted to arrogant guys because sublimanally they know beneath he is generally quite insecure. I work with 300 or so guys and I can see right through their bullshit. A xxx Hey....I like it! I think it is true;what you say....arrogant men kinda do have insecurities . I went out with this body builder many years ago and he was so arrogant, it made my stomach turn. (probably why I dont date that type anymore) He had a tough exterioe but deep down iside, he had some major issues within himself. Thanks sweetie!~ Muah
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I am planning on starting one. Yesterday I was trying to come up with a good title for it. I've got a few ideas! I'll let you know when I get started. kisskiss{=} {=}kisses, hugs, and sweet soft licks{=}
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I am planning on starting one. Yesterday I was trying to come up with a good title for it. I've got a few ideas! I'll let you know when I get started. kisskiss{=} You know, you can start your blog and have a title to it and then you can always change it! I've changed mine a few times already! Cant wait to read what you've got to say! Licks!! xx
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Hey I got a couple of his E-Books on my computer.
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10/8/2006 6:45 pm |
So when it comes to over confindent cocky guys I get very turned off. I don't mind confident men. I get hit on by too many cocky guys that they all believe they are originals and not knowing they are all the same. Jaye
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Hey I got a couple of his E-Books on my computer. Hmmm. interesting. I'd like to read some !
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So when it comes to over confindent cocky guys I get very turned off. I don't mind confident men. I get hit on by too many cocky guys that they all believe they are originals and not knowing they are all the same. Jaye (yes, you are indeed!) I kind of know how you are from the other site and from Montreal.....your thinking the right way!
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Where would you like it sent too?
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10/11/2006 9:53 pm |
Hey Steamy, The next time you are at borders or Barnes and Noble check in the relationships section and look for a book called "The Game-penetrating the Secret Society of pick up artists" by Neal Strauss. It looks like a Bible (black cover with gold lettering and gold trimmed pages). It's the memoirs of a Rolling Stone writer turned pick up artist. He apprenticed himself under many of the "players" and has a little something to say about all of them, including David Deangelo. What he mainly teaches is the "mystery method" of picking up women. I actually recomend this book a lot to aspiring salesmen, guys trying to pick up girls (including my little brother) and women trying to pick up other women. It is probably best not to use the exact phrasing used in the book, telling a woman she has "man hands" is probably not the quickest way into her heart. But the gist of it is to create an aire of mystery about you and be the "alpha male" which I assume is the ultimate reasoning behind Deangelo's thinking. I have actually used this method both in sales and on women, and it works in both areas. It seems to work best on the hottest girls in the club or Bar (imagine that). At one point on a vacation in Las Vegas at an exclusive ultra-lounge (Pure) i had three hot Japanese girls dancing on me/with me, and my sisters hot friend eyeing me with daggers from across the floor, all while completely showing up some british guys who didn't know how to make an approach. I have also compared and contrasted this method with DeAngelo's (my cousin is a big "Cocky/Funny" believer) And so we went out to hooters one night, while it was open (tear hits the floor) him doing cocky/funny and me using the mystery method, and yep I got the phone number and he got the tab. To put this in perspective I am 5'6" 145lbs and have a big nose and a slight overbite, I am not anyones model of masculinity. All of this was not to brag (especially about my looks, haha), but to qualify and back up what I was saying. I have found that either method is very massogonistic but pretty effective. For those of you keeping score, no I didn't bag the three Japanese chicks, but my sister's hot friend is another story. Unfortunately, no feigned mystery can last forever, and the cocky/funny bit gets old quick, so its not a useful way to start a relationship, but if you modify it and smooth out the rough edges it can be a great way to meet the people you are looking for. I have written so much that I have forgotten the point. Oh yeah, read the book, the first fifty or so pages are the most helpful, after that it just is stories about his conquests and his mentor's fall from grace. And while you are at Borders, go pick up some coffee and try using some of the lines on people to see their reactions, you may just go home with a hot girls phone number or two and then you can come back on here and explain why it works, cause I sure as hell can't.
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