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Dear Diary----What Makes a Exceptional FWB  

veryfunnycple64 60M/60F
9142 posts
10/14/2013 10:13 pm

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Dear Diary----What Makes a Exceptional FWB

Dear diary;

I was wondering…what makes a person an exceptional Friend with Benefits? Is a person who is patient, understanding, and not demanding a viable candidate? How about a person who is great listener and empathetic? Should he be an attentive lover who anticipates her needs and wants? I think I am a great friend, who tries to be attentive and understanding, and is always there for my friend. I try to be laid back and fun. I definitely offer no pressure. But, what else can I do…Can I do more? When we are together, the world is far away, and we are lost within ourselves. I breathe her in. She exhales her passion to me. The air around us is charged, full of sexual static, and lusting sparks. I fill with ecstatic energy and want to share it with her. To hold her feels like a thousand tingles up and down my spine, and her touch fires my desire. Hot and shallow breathing initiate our sensual desires. The intense stares and the subtle nonverbal cues- nostril flaring, the pupils narrows, lips slightly open and the lips gently licked by the tongue, are the prelude to the sensual play that’s about to begin. My human longing and desires is waiting to be satiated by my lover’s full amorous attention. Lust and love, the building up to and the ultimate release, the warm glow turns into the tempest of volcano’s explosion, and then we find ourselves entwined in the afterglow of the day’s salaciousness. Again, what makes a perfect Friend with Benefits? I believe the most important thing is that I care…that I want to care. I am not here to judge nor do I want to be judged. I don’t live in the perfect world and my expectations are far from looking for perfection. I search for a connection- a person who cares for me. My friend and I reciprocate these feelings of empathy and caring. Our time spent together is short and somewhat fleeting, but it matters not the length of the moment we have, rather the emotional connection we have. I have, I want, I need, I am- is all here before me. I jot these thoughts in my diary of my mind to hold on to.


VF
October 15, 2013




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pal334 69M  
45821 posts
10/15/2013 2:02 am

Well said, FWB are , or can be very special

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veryfunnycple64 replies on 10/15/2013 6:37 am:
so true Pal....FWB's can be fun and caring type relationships! See ya, VF

MyInnerVoice 67F  
1063 posts
10/15/2013 7:51 am

An exceptional FWB is a wonderful experience. What makes one? So many things but for me, it always comes back to trust. Trust that he won't hurt me, not physically, not emotionally. I have been fortunate to have one such man in my life. We don't see each other often but when we do, it is as if no time has gone by. hugs........


veryfunnycple64 replies on 10/15/2013 9:20 am:
yes, trust is a must as well as respect! I hope you find your exceptional FWB! hugs and kisses!

sweet_VM 65F
81699 posts
10/15/2013 10:11 am

Your FWB friend is very special to you and will always treasure the moments spent! I am off now for few days gone Whale Watching.. see you soon.. Hopefully I will find some good pics to post hugs V

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veryfunnycple64 replies on 10/15/2013 12:01 pm:
Have fun, sweet_VM! See ya, VF

streamsitter 62F
3262 posts
10/15/2013 3:25 pm

But is FWB enough for you?

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veryfunnycple64 replies on 10/15/2013 7:01 pm:
that is a good question...streamsitter...maybe start as FWB and see where it goes...no stress....no pressures...just getting to know each other and have fun! I would like a relationship but I don't want all the the drama and pressures!

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