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Too Much Forbearance  

veryfunnycple64 60M/60F
9142 posts
7/7/2013 1:00 pm

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7/26/2013 7:44 am

Too Much Forbearance



Looking for my new heart’s desire,
Where can she be and when am I going to find her?
I am the wandering soul- keeping my heart open.

To search or not to search is the question,
Waiting takes excruciating patience-but aimless searching makes me weary.
All I can do is to put my faith in my Karma and my mindfulness.

My thoughts wander and wane to the sound of emptiness,
I hope to gain some insight into my longing soul,
Feelings of forlornness and forbearance are upon me.

I long for the sound of laughter and joy of coupling,
Too many solitary nights brooding over self regrets,
Causes me to doubt and question my place in the world.

I write as most poets do,
To examine and address my heart and soul,
I long for romance and happiness.


I had a great weekend, but I spent too much time with couples at the lake house. It just reminded me of my singleness and how our society expects people to couple up. I am happy being single, but on occasion when friends and family start asking when are you going to date again or get married, etc...it gets me down. What is your thoughts on this?

VF
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sweet_VM 65F
81699 posts
7/7/2013 1:39 pm

Funny you be happy for who you are! Someone will come along that will steal your hot and soul! Your a super guy! Any girl who falls for you would be so lucky to have you.

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veryfunnycple64 replies on 7/7/2013 1:49 pm:
Thanks, VM...for that pep talk...I was with too many couples this weekend...lol...it made me feel like singleness was bad..but I do like being single...VF

BeccaLuvs 61F
20895 posts
7/7/2013 1:52 pm

Yep I agree! Do what is right for 'you' VF, what is in your heart? First we had "peer pressure", now we have "society pressure"? So wonderful when you do meet 'the' partner. He or she, and that very special connection .....

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sweet_VM 65F
81699 posts
7/7/2013 2:23 pm

I do hear you on that one! Couples just want you to be happy! She is out there I am sure of it! Your handsome, charming, witty and dam sexy! What else does she want! hugs V

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veryfunnycple64 replies on 7/7/2013 4:05 pm:
Thanks, VM...your quite sexy too. Luvs, back to you, VF

pal334 69M  
45821 posts
7/7/2013 6:13 pm

I have been single for about 10 years. Still amicable with ex. I am good with the way things are. I don't think I will ever marry or "couple up" again. Have made too many friends in situations like me who do not want to be "exclusive". My married friends just accept me as I am. So just go with the flow and do what makes you happy.

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veryfunnycple64 replies on 7/7/2013 6:23 pm:
Thanks, Pal...I will!

MyInnerVoice 67F  
1063 posts
7/7/2013 7:15 pm

Hi funny, Being single is not a bad thing. In fact, I think after a divorce or equivalent loss or change in status, it is a good thing. A person needs time for their heart and mind to heal. To be comfortable with yourself is important. I have felt that same way when I am with my married friends -- it does make me sad. But only sometimes. Sometimes, I come away thinking, "I'm really glad I am alone right now".

Have faith. They say love will find you when you least expect it!

hugs,
Voice

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veryfunnycple64 replies on 7/7/2013 7:36 pm:
Thanks, Voice...Yes...for the most part I am quite happy with my singleness....but spending loads of time with couples gets me down...see ya soon...VF

sweet_VM 65F
81699 posts
7/7/2013 9:52 pm

Funny your doing awesome be yourself and you will find her! hugs V

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veryfunnycple64 replies on 7/8/2013 4:07 am:
VM...you are a true friend...hugs, VF

streamsitter 62F
3262 posts
7/25/2013 4:57 pm

I understand - but be thankful your couple friends still include you - a lot of times they don't want a single around - I think that stems from thier own insecurities. But, if they ask - you just tell them I am having a relationship with myself right now. Keep the faith loves finds you when you least expect it.

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veryfunnycple64 replies on 7/26/2013 5:17 am:
yes...love is a fickle fate....one has to wait for its magic touch! VF

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